ENLIGHTENED RELATIONSHIPS
Make Your Most Important Relationship the one with YOURSELF!
As we evolve spiritually we begin to adopt a more loving, accepting attitude toward others. Struggling to understand how to love unconditionally, we try to treat others as we want to be treated, strive to look beyond all the foibles and faults to focus on the essence of the soul inside
It is a difficult process, one that few ever master. Whether we admit it or not, most of us have an agenda behind loving someone ... to be loved in return ... to be nurtured and looked after ... to escape loneliness or abandonment ... to feel good about ourself ... because it is society's norm and is expected of us ...
Life's everyday experiences teach us that it is selfish and vain to put ourself before others. We experience conflict and dissention when we make demands without consideration for those around us. And, gradually we become conditioned to believe that we must put our own needs aside in order to make those around us happy or, more importantly, in order to be loved by others. We compromise our dreams, our needs, our desires, and often even our individuality in the spirit of co-operation and in the name of love
But, that is not what love is about at all! Experiencing the feeling of love is, in its truest sense, a bliss connection to our universal Source. Everyone strives to attain it because it is the essence of who we really are. We come into this life as love and joy. We learn to be less than that
Loving really is the ultimate gift to ourself much more than a gift to the object of our affections. When we love we feel alive, expanded, potent. We experience a heightened sense of connection to the material plane through our senses and a deeper connection to the Divine and the universe
But, it isn't long before that little voice inside our head begins to murmur ... what if I get hurt ... what if I am abandoned ... what if he doesn't love me back ... what id I am treated the same way as before ... what if it doesn't last ... what if I can't meet his expectations ...
We begin to behave in ways that will elicit the response we desire. We offer gifts, do thoughtful things, bargain for love. We may even try to change ourself or adopt a role, becoming the person we think our lover wants us to be
As a result, we begin to feel insecure and vulnerable within the relationship.
Vulnerability only exists is you are offering your love with a motive ... something you want in return. If you love without expectations, simply for the grand and wonderful gift love is to your soul, you cannot be hurt. Something magical happens. Since unconditional love is your essence and and the essence of the Divine, the universe responds to you with generosity, beauty and abundance. Like attracts like
Loving has to begin with self--understanding, accepting and appreciating yourself fully. That does NOT mean trying to be perfect of ideal. It means getting to know your real self intimately and honestly
You will never really experience fulfilling love until you go within and deal with those murmuring voices. First, you must heal your past--all the hurts, experiences and thoughts that are shaping your attitudes and beliefs. Let your past be the tool for personal growth rather than a blueprint for your future. Learn how our flower essences can help you achieve this effortlessly ...
We offer special floral essence blends uniquely designed to enhance your relationship experiences ....
Inviting Intimacy deepens your connection to others--friends, family and lovers. It heals the past and opens your heart. It balances 1st and 2nd chakras to allow pleasure, physical imtimacy and self-expression and helps integrate all chakras to help you to stay balanced within a relationship
Heartbreak Relief supports you when you have experienced a relationship breakup and a broken heart. It enables forgiveness, releases guilt, and helps heal the karma and your energetic ties to the relationship. Most importantly, it stops your tendancy to make bad choices in partners. This blend works to re-open your heart so that you can have happy fullfilling relationships in the future. That's why we call it "Im SO over you!"
'Ditch the Dud' helps you outgrow unhealthy relationships. You may not even know whether your curent relationship is unhealthy, but Ditch the Dud helps to stop self-sabotage and will allow shifts and insights that help you to make healthier choices for yourself and your relationships. Sometimes that can improve a relationship. Sometimes you may choose to walk away. Ditch the Dud also supports you in releasing karmic ties and moving forward
Soulmate Magnet is not a love potion! It heals those aspects of yourself that attract karmic partners. As Soulmate Magnet opens your heart to receive love, you become more attractive to the right kinds of parnters and begin to make healthier choices in relationships
Jealousy Relief supports 1st and 2nd chakras. When these chakras are out of balance you will experience insecurity, mistrust, possessiveness and jealousy. Jealousy Relief fosters trust, love, forgiveness and supports healthier relationships by helping you to pay more attention to your own needs
Grief Relief supports you in the loss of a loved one, whether human or a cherished pet
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"Under the sustaining influence of expressing love, the physical body remains at its best. More people are sick from a lack of feeling and expressing love than from all other causes put together"
How to Find Your Soul Mate Don't make the life-altering mistake of settling. Wouldn't you rather have it all? ... love, passion, commitment, trust, personal growth ... If you hang onto your present relationship like a 'port-in-a-storm', the real love of your life cannot find you or be with you
How to Grow Within a Relationship... Discover the value of all your relationships as a tool for personal growth and self-awareness
Surviving the Ending of a Relationship Two thirds of all second marriages end in divorce. That's because the partners did not complete the four stages of healing after their first marriage ended. Learn what you need to do so you can move on to have a more successful relationship
"You cannot leave a situation until you have done so with love. Those situations that you leave in anger will be there for you to resolve in the future. It may not be with the same person, but you will create another situation and similar person to allow you to resolve it with love" Sanaya Roman
How to Find a Sense of Belonging and Security in a Relationship Learn how to create a loving balanced fullfilling relationship. Become conscious of what you need and what you are willing to provide in a relationship in order to feel secure and complete with another
