Emotions and Your Body

Years ago I broke my leg in a riding accident and had to spend time convalescing.  After weeks of on-going pain and discomfort, I noticed how tired and despondent I began to feel

Pain had disrupted my ability to sleep, to enjoy simple pleasures, to make good judgments, and to concentrate on work.  Through continually tensing myself to resist the pain, it had also disrupted the functions of my entire body

Months after the accident I was at a workshop and had to fill out a detailed questionnaire about my life, my family, and my past.  Painful memories were forced into mind.  The more detailed the questions and information I had to provide, the more tired, achy and despondent I became.  It even took effort to breathe and to concentrate.  I began to notice some startling similarities to how I physically felt after breaking my leg.  I realized it felt identical to the tiredness and despondency that overwhelmed me after experiencing physical pain for so long

"When something within us is disowned, that which is disowned wreaks havoc"  Ralph H Blum and Susan Coughan



grief ~ anxiety ~ depression ~ sadness ~ self-pity ~ bad luck ~ unfulfilled dreams ~ shame ~ humiliation ~ unhappy relationships ~ betrayal ~ regret ~ loneliness ~ low confidence ~ guilt ~ frustration ~ feeling stuck or held back

A teacher once asked her students to each bring to school a sack of potatoes.  For every painful experience they could recall, and for every person they could not forgive in their life, each student had to choose a potato and then carve into it the name of the incident and the date of the occurrence

For an entire month the students were required to carry around their personalized sack of potatoes at all times.   It lay beside their bed at night, sat with them at lunch and on the bus, and while they were with friends

The hassle of lugging around this load soon made it profoundly clear what a weight they were carrying around emotionally.  The people whose names were inscribed on the potatoes were not in the least affected by the heavy burden

It seemed a rather high price to pay to hold onto people, situations and emotions that were of no positive value in their lives.  The students began to see forgiveness and letting go as a gift to themselves, rather than a gift to others

We all carry emotional baggage to varying degrees--painful childhood memories, grief over the loss of a loved one, the devastation of a marriage or relationship break up, the trauma of physical or sexual violation.  Who hasn't suffered rejection, betrayal, hardship, failure, shame, longing, guilt, loss of self-esteem, or sorrow to some degree? 

It's easier to believe there is a way around experiencing sorrow, that we can avoid pain and lose nothing of the fullness and joy of living.  What I have come to realize is that it is not pain that hurts us most.  It is resistance to pain that wears us out.  We fear it, fight it, run from it, ignore it or try to bury it

It takes a lot more energy to store pain than it does to confront it.  The tension and effort of bracing shut the doors of our emotional storage vault eventually takes its toll in physical terms 

"A wound not fully felt consumes from the inside.  We must run very hard if we want to stay one step ahead of this pain"  Oriah Mountain Dreamer

It's no wonder so many people feel tired, listless, and in pain all the time.  Sadly, when you live with low energy long enough, it begins to feel normal and you lose the memory of how to feel great

Have you forgotten what it feels like to have vitality, energy and enthusiasm, and to look forward to each day?  We're here to help you regain your joy and vitality!  Learn how ...   


We offer 3 wonderful topical essence fusions that work to dissolve the energetic effects of emotional pain that has now manifested as physical pain and injury.  Learn more ...

MEASURING EMOTIONS  Emotions are simply a form of energy that runs through your body like an electrical current.  Each emotion has its own measurable energy frequency ... 


Basic instinctive emotions such as anger and fear resonate in the same frequency range as the color red.  Anger and fear are part of your survival mechanisms.  Your tailbone/genital area, or root chakra resonates at this frequency

Unconditional love resonates at the same frequency as ultra-violet light.  It is the highest visible frequency.  Your Thymus (located just below your throat) resonates at this frequency.  Still higher than unconditional love in frequency are the emotions of faith, gratitude, and joy.  They resonate in your pituitary area within your head.  Your pituitary is thought to be a conduit to universal energies

Emotions in the range below the neutral line on the chart above are 'negative' emotions.  These emotions flow FROM you into the world.  In short bursts, these emotions can prompt you to take action to get your needs met.  But, over a long time, neuro-peptides prompted by these negative emotions can cause health issues, as well as impact your relationships and daily life

Emotions in the upper frequencies are beneficial for your health and your well-being.  They flow THROUGH you, which means they are beneficial both for you, and the world around you


THE PHYSICAL IMPACT  As the electrical current of an emotion travels along your neural pathways, it triggers a release of chemical proteins called neuro-peptides (NPs).  Each emotion has its own individual frequency.  In response to each specific emotional frequency, your body releases corresponding NP's 

NP's communicate chemical messages throughout your body, creating physiological responses.  Adrenaline, hormones, oxytocin, endorphins--these are all examples of NPs.  Each neuro-peptide creates such specific biological responses, that physical symptoms can actually pinpoint what's really happening in your unconscious mind

For instance, happiness, joy, laughter, and orgasms cause the release of natural opiates called endorphins.  These powerful opiates make you feel good.  They boost your immune system, relax muscles, elevate your mood, and dampen pain

Adrenaline and cortisol are triggered by fear, anxiety or stress.  They cause your heart to beat faster, and blood vessels to dilate, making your skin flush.  Rapid, shallow breathing ensues.  Muscles tighten, especially around the stomach and shoulder area.  A slight sweat may break out 

The purpose of adrenaline is to place your body in a high-alert rapid-response fight-or-flight state.  In emergencies, this is beneficial, as it aids escape.  But, over a long period, adrenaline can be very damaging to your body.  It suppresses your immune system, impairs digestion, uses up vital vitamins and minerals, causes pain and stiffness, makes your body acidic resulting in inflammation or body odor, and drains vitality 

And, as with many NP's, adrenaline is highly addictive.  Your body becomes accustomed to over-stimulation over time, and eventually needs it to maintain higher energy levels. Those who have experienced extended periods of adrenal overload, especially from childhood, such as those who grew up in homes with an achoholic or critical parent, or those who experienced physical or verbal abuse, will often unconsciously attract dramas or crises in their lives to feed their adrenaline dependance.  Or, you may crave sugar, junk foods, or foods to which you are allergic, as these also stimulate the adrenal gland

Studies have shown that negative emotions actually weaken your body, while positive emotions strengthen your body.  Shame has the most devastating effect, followed by guilt, apathy, grief, fear, anxiety, craving, anger and hate.  some of the physical symptoms various emotions elicit ... 

Since your body/mind/spirit are all connected, negative emotions reflect in your face and change the appearance of eyes, expression, skin texture, color and tension.  See images before and after taking our flower essences ...     

So, negative emotions really DO cause disease, illness and pre-mature aging! 

Powerful emotions such as pain, fear, grief, disappointment, panic, anxiety, anger, and longing, shock your body like an electrical charge, causing lesions along your neural pathways.  This disrupts your body's natural energy flow.  (RESTORE is our flower essence remedy for PTSD and other severe emotional traumas!) 

According to Dr David Suzuki, condensed molecules from breath exhaled from verbal expressions of anger, hatred, and jealousy, contain toxins.  Accumulated over 1 hr, these toxins are enough to kill 80 guinea pigs!  Anger damages the liver and gall bladder.  Anger toward another person is like taking poison and expecting someone else to die!

It doesn't help to hold back or deny your emotions.  The very nature of energy is movement.  When you repress or control your feelings, their energy can't flow outward properly and dissipate naturally.  You may think you have controlled how you felt, but the energy of it is still at work in your body

Suppressing emotions uses up a lot of energy, which robs your body of energy that should be used for vital functions.  Negative emotions tax your spleen, liver and adrenal glands and use up nutrients the body needs to sustain itself.  The result is fatigue, auto-immune disorders, and lowered vitality.  Learn more about emotions and how they can harm you ... 

Energy has to move.  If an emotion isn't expressed (outward movement), it is suppressed (inward movement).  The result of controlling or stifling emotional energy is frustration, anger, depression, physical pain, control issues, emotional 'shut-down', or self-sabotage.  Self-judgment, low self-esteem and unworthiness begin to develop.  Chronic pain in the form of arthritis, bursitis, joint pain, or back pain sets in.    This inhibits your ability to create or receive what you really want in life.  You learn to expect little joy in your life and settle for less than your soul needs to flourish

Learn how you can effortlessly neutralize those negative memories and feelings ...   

Psychoneuroimmunology is the study of how emotions impact your immune system, health and well-being.  Candice Pert PhD, Louise Hay, and Bruce Lipton PhD are pioneers in this scientific field of study

Thoughts create, not only in the sense that your thoughts motivate you to action, but also that every thought or feeling creates your state of health and well-being.  Learn more ... 

This startling new awareness has resulted in the emergence of a whole new field of medicine called 'energy-psychology'

Here's what we now know ....

  • An imbalance between your rational mind and your emotions will cause digestive upset, constipation, diarrhea or digestive disorders.  That's because your mental 'digestion' or assimilation process is mirrored by your body's physical assimilation process  (Try one of our stress-relieving essences to calm the mind and re-balance these energies)
  • Resentment and bitterness are like acid.  They cause inflammation and pain.  Stubborn, inflexible resentment goes to the knees, shoulders, and joints--the parts of your body that are designed to be open and flexible  (Try topical AH FLEXIBLE or I Am Flexible)
  • Arthritis is bottled-up hurt and resentment (try AH or Forgiveness)
  • Cancer is a deep disowned secret, hatred, guilt, or grief 'eating away' at you.  Your cells lose their identity and become something other than you
  • Breast and uterine cancer reveals a lack of nurturing or self-nurturing in your life, or an inability to nurture others (see our lovely nurturing essence fusions)  
  • Back pain reveals feeling a lack of support.  Lumbar back pain points to lack of financial support.  Thoracic back pain shows no emotional support or love.  Middle back pain is carrying the weight of the past and also reflects feeling unsupported and overwhelmed by responsibility  (Try our essence fusion SUPPORT)    

more physical symptoms

Negative emotions have a dense, slower vibration.  They are 'heavier', so they gravitate to the lower parts of your body.  Your legs, calves and feet store much of your trauma, resentment, jealousy, and emotional pain, both past and present  


HOW TO SAFELY RELEASE EMOTIONS  Pent-up emotions can be released through the feet.  Take off your shoes and walk barefoot in the grass.  Walk along a beach, especially an ocean beach or beside water falls where negative ions are released into the air by the moving water.  Niagara Falls releases the largest concentration of negative ions on the planet!   Negative ions are healing and emotionally uplifting.   No ocean?  Soak your feet in epsom salts and hot water or have a Reiki or Reflexology treatment!     

Smile, even if you don't feel it.  The act of smiling changes your body chemistry.  You'll suddenly feel happier!  Laughter is also a great emotional release!  Laughter releases chemical endorphins to make you feel happy and relaxed.  Visit The Laugh Academy for more information     

Physical exercise, strenuous labour, or sports activities help to dissipate emotional energy and release it harmlessly.  Physical activities trigger the release of endorphins to make you feel good.  Exercise helps expel physical and emotional toxins.

Breathe deeply!  When you exert yourself, you breathe more deeply, getting added oxygen.  People who are in emotional or physical pain tend to breathe very shallow.  Your body becomes acidic when deprived of oxygen, which reduces your ability to cope with stress 

Meditation is an ideal tool to achieve serenity and balance between your brain's left and  right hemispheres.  Meditation slows your brain waves to an alpha stste of 7.8-11htz.   This provides a direct link to your subconscious mind.   It's rather like hacking into the universe's software.  Meditation directly opens you to wisdom and inspiration far beyond analytical modes.  We offer some easy tips for meditation 


HOW TO DISSOLVE THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF YOUR PAINFUL PAST   Our potentized living flower frequencies were created to effortlessly to dissolve the damaging frequencies of negative emotions by overwriting them with higher frequency states of being.  Our botanical frequencies contain the exact frequencies that match your most positive state of being--happiness, balance and well-being.  They gently assist you to quickly and easily dissolve the effects of all those invisible unconscious blocks: a lifetime's learning and accumulation of negative beliefs and experiences that are keeping you from your life as it could be and SHOULD be!


Are you ready to meet your best self? 


Potentized living flower frequencies are the optimal way to restore balance to mind body and spirit to those who need a little extra help!  No courses ... no doctrines, no effort laced with struggle, no weekly counseling, no hypnosis, secrets or gimmicks ... just the amazing and powerful shift that naturally occurs when you raise your energetic frequencies and discover your best self  

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