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Emotions and Your Mind

Did you know happiness, joy and peace is your natural state?  It's true!

EVERYthing else you have learned by observing others, from your experiences, your parents and teachers, from television and books ... everything ....

Happiness is not something you have to strive for or achieve.  It's already waiting inside you.  Happiness is a state of being that happens when your needs are being met and you are in balance

You been taught to feel the way you are feeling right now, learned to settle for less than you really want, to make choices that fall short of happiness, and to accept not having your needs met.  In fact, because of what others have taught you, you may have mistakenly come to believe that's just how life is.  In reality, it is what you have learned that is now holding you back


The Secret Life of Emotions ...  Here's how your beliefs have come to be a part of you .... Beginning when you are a small child, your rational mind makes judgments about your emotional experiences based on perception of pain or pleasure.  That's how you decide what is good or bad   

Because judgments are derived from your personal experiences, which act as evidence, you believe them to true.  These personal 'truths' then create 'rules' that govern your behavior, choices and decisions throughout your life.  'Don't do this.  It isn't safe.'    

Negative beliefs are powerful because they stem from your motivation for survival--your fundamental desire to avoid pain and stay safe

That why by the age of 5 you have already decided what you must do to survive.  From this decision, this 'belief' about how the world is, most of your fears, inhibitions and self-limitations grow.  

North American culture has taught you to ignore your feelings.  ("Don't cry honey,  Here, have a cookie" or "Stop crying or I will give your something to cry about." or "You shouldn't feel that way. ")  As a result, you are probably not aware of how you truly feel, and you have now learned to substitute 'cookies' and other material things for emotional comfort and fulfillment.  And that's not good, because your emotions have a very important purpose!  Learn why you have emotions ...

Negative emotions such as depression, anxiety, frustration, anger, worry, stress, lethargy, guilt, fear, abandonment, judgment, grief, sadness, victimization, and hopelessness are simply a sign that your needs are not being met.  In this state you are out of balance, disempowered, unhappy.  Your life begins to spiral downward ... or it simply stalls and you feel stuck


There are 7 emotional wounds that can leave deep and lasting scars and keep you locked in destructive behavior patterns or even harm your health  ...

abandonment ~ betrayal ~ guilt ~ humiliation/shame ~ injustice ~ rejection ~ fear 


How many of these emotional wounds have you experienced? 

Painful negative feelings have a huge impact on your life.  They can over-ride your rational thoughts.  When you experience any of these 7 traumatic emotional wounds your mind develops behavior patterns to avoid experiencing similar devastating pain.  It doesn't take long before your life is filled with personal limitations and imbalance ... can't trust ... can't forgive ... don't risk ... must become perfect to be loved ...


Dysfunctional family lifestyle situations also shape your outlook on life and leave painful scars.  Childhood experiences often become re-enacted in adult relationships and in your lifestyle, even though they are uncomfortable or painful.  That is because your brain uses your experiences to build that patterns that dictate your behaviours.  These become habits and rules for the way you live your life


"The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken"  Warren Buffet


Feeling Stuck?  Change happens from the inside

abuse ~ addiction ~ poverty ~ criticism ~ violence or anger ~ deprivation ~ illness ~ abandonment 


For example, the adult child of an alcoholic will often choose an alcoholic or addictive partner  

A child who lives with criticism and a perfectionist parent will grow up to be unable to rely on anyone, controlling, a perfectionist, and/or an over-achiever.  They will feel they need to be perfect in order to be lovable  

A child who is abandoned by a parent will choose 'unavailable' partners unwilling to fulfill their emotional needs

A child who lives constantly with fear and insecurity will grow up to feel uneasy in the absence of stress, and will feel bored, restless, apathetic, or at a loss unless chaos, problems and drama are present


If you have decided what you are currently doing is OK, you will never change your outer world.  Your circumstances and experiences will keep repeating over and over again.  You must ask yourself  "What is it going to take for my life to change?"   


Here are a few examples of common self-limiting patterns along with the emotional wounds that first created these patterns ...

  • no risk because you might not succeed (humilation, criticism) 
  • need for perfection or to be perfect (rejection or criticism)
  • low self-esteem (rejection, humiliation, abandonment, criticism, betrayal) 
  • money problems (rejection--if I am rich or successful, people won't like me, fear--I won't be able to handle the responsibility, guilt--I don't deserve it) 
  • relationship problems (abandonment, rejection, injustice, betrayal, humiliation)

Learn more about what your feelings are telling you ...


No thought lives rent-free in your head!  Every thought affects you and your daily life, either in positive ways, or in negative ways.  You will know whether you are on the right track by whether you feel happy and free


 Learn more about the impact on your life when you neglect to heal and balance your emotions


Did you know ... every emotion and thought creates such specific biological responses, that physical symptoms can actually pinpoint what's really going on in your unconscious mind!    That means negative emotions really DO cause disease and illness!  Learn how emotions affect your body 

And yet, your natural state is happiness and JOY!  How did you get so far from who you really are?  How do you find your way back to that natural state of JOY and serenity?


Click HERE to take the Happiness Quiz


Enlightened Feelings living essences elevate your vibration to allow you to discover and break through your own limiting beliefs and awaken to greater possibilities and potential.  Try these simple effective ways to free you from your past quickly, gently, effortlessly.  From your first essence remedy you will begin to discover effortless change that begins at the very core of your energetic being and moves through your whole body, mind, auric field, and outward into your life.  Major lifelong issues suddenly begin to resolve, and limitations dissolve


Your life as it could be ...

  • Respond to life in more positive ways
  • Feel more serenity and ease in life
  • Gain healthy self-esteem and confidence
  • Attract more good things into your life
  • Have healthy, satisfying relationships
  • Align with your true destiny
  • Neutralize the 'buttons' that people push


Are you ready to let go of the past?  Gain the freedom of walking unencumbered through the world.  A happier, more fulfilling life begins here, right now, with a choice.  Simply choose happiness.  Take your first step to inner peace  ... 


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