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Essences for Gracefully Adapting to Changes in Your Life


When you encounter a new experience, everything within you that is unhealed will begin to rush to the surface.  You continue to bring all your old stuff with you wherever you go until you finally heal it.  So, as daily life unfolds, the majority of your problems and resistance are caused by your mental reaction

Our transformative essence fusions have been created to assist you to with the 'next chapter' in your life.  They can assist you to gracefully and confidently adapt to new situations and major changes in your life, however unexpected or abrupt

Try Our NEWEST essence remedy "SERENITY"


Use our essence fusions for bereavement, relocation, a new baby, second marriage, change of job, first day of kindergarten, school or university, retirement, 'empty nest', menopause, or divorce.  Our formulas are carefully selected and extensively field tested to ensure efficacy across a broad range of related situations and personality types.  Full instructions are provided with each essence remedy


see also Stress and Anxiety Relief

see also Empowering Essences 

see also Relationships Essences


FAQ's about flower essences     Some of our clients' experiences



Adapt to Change

"Adapt to Change"

To foster willing acceptance when relocating, first day of new school, career or lifestyle change ...

A wonderful quick-acting remedy that assists you to move on, adapt, and accept change gracefully and effortlessly.  Quells homesickness 

Ideal for first day of school, kindergarten, or college, change of career, immigration, relocating, or change of life


Use for 3-21 days

15 ml  ~  $15  ~  30 ml @ $30

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"When I am in unfamiliar circumstances, I feel scared and want to do what I know.  The flowers gave me confidence and security about my decision.  I didn't look back.  I was ready for my new adventure!"  Gabriella P  St Catharines ON 


Try our formulas specially created for children and pets ...

Adapt to Change for Children     30 ml @ $30

Adapt to Change for Pets     30 ml @ $30




I Am Flexible"I Am Flexible" 
Soften your view of situations and everything changes! ...  
I AM FLEXIBLE promotes allowance and acceptance, adaptability, flexibility, open willingness, co-operation.  It fosters allowance for new ideas and new ways, risk-taking, and a greater sense of adventure.  Assists relationships by promoting a more open, neutral exchange and acceptance of other points of view 
Useful for OCD and some types of addiction (such as pharmaceuticals).  May help to open the mind to new ways of doing things.
May also be helpful for those who need to brainstorm or come up with a different approach to a problem or situation
Use for 21-66 days
30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

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"I have long wondered what the statement 'don't resist' meant in terms of allowing change. Since taking the flower essences, I am able to realize my resistance reactions to change.  I realize the words, thought and feelings I have in relation to something I don't like IS the resistance. I have connected these thought patterns to feelings of tightness around my middle torso and lower chest. Right where the liver, kidneys and heart are."  Jeanne H  El Cerrito CA





NEW!!  "Serenity"  

When you cannot change what is happening ....

Allows acceptance and making peace with the past and those things you cannot change.  Promotes letting go and stops persistence of feelings.  Helps you to surrender and accept what cannot be changed and move on without bitterness.  Helpful when you can forgive but still feel the hurt and animosity of wrongs done to you


Use for 21-66 days

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml  @ $50


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"I have a sense of peace like I never had in this lifetime. Yes I’m not ok with what happened … However I myself as a person feel so much better. Even the people around me have changed. Everyone around me seems to treat me with a higher sense of respect. I don’t fear being harmed by others. And now I know why I was always having dreams about returning to school and falling behind. It was simply a subconscious message that I had unfinished business that required my attention. Also I know what that hidden hurt was that randomly tried to come out at times. Also my lifelong forehead tension has gone away."  Daniel O  CA




Moving On


"Moving On"

A gentle nudge to help you accept what is and begin to re-invent your life ... 

Ideal for those who have suffered a serious loss, injury, bereavement, or challenge/change that forever alters your life as you knew it—such as the loss of a relationship, job, spouse, your home, or loss of a limb.  

Pulls you out of self pity and shifts you forward, helping you to accept that you can have a brighter future.  Helps you embrace that you can have more, not less


Use for 21 days 

30 ml  $30 


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When your world is changing or in chaos ...

FLOW provides graceful mind-body-spirit harmony.  Releases resistance, frustration, fear, guilt.  Places you in 'the zone' to use the law of attraction and synchronicity


Use as needed

15 ml  @ $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50


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Broken Heart Heal

"Broken Heart Heal" 

When you suddenly find yourself all alone and your whole life has changed  ....

BROKEN HEART HEAL shifts you through and beyond grief resulting from a significant loss such as divorce or death of a spouse or child.  Releases heartache, grief and self-pity.  Turns sorrow and grief into acceptance.  Instills understanding and grace when the loss seems so unfair  

Especially created for the most challenging types of grief that are so life-altering, and for grief that persists for a much longer period of time  

We recommend 'Be Kind to Yourself' while taking this essence

We recommend Moving On to follow this essence


Use for 42-66 days

60 ml @ $50  

Broken Hear Heal





Comfort & Solace

"Comfort and Solace"  

It's painful when you lose a beloved pet ..

COMFORT & SOLACE soothes sorrow, heartbreak and emptiness following the loss of a beloved pet, separation from someone you love, or any other significant loss.  Helps you feel comfort in your memories and find acceptance and inner peace 

Are you making the difficult decision to euthanize your pet?  Or are you about to love someone you love to terminal illness or assisted suicide?  Keep this essence on hand and start taking it a few days beforehand.  It will ease your heart and provide strength and inner peace during your time of loss

Use for 3-7 days if the  loss is immediate.  Use for 21 days to comfort longer-held grief


30 ml @ $30   

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"I took the grief drops immediately after I euthanized my dog a few days ago.  I have used your essences for quite some time and have always found them helpful.  But, that was the fastest your essences have ever worked for me!  It has definitely helped my memories bring me comfort instead of sorrow"   Wendy W  Pt Colborne ON 



Divorce Heal


NEW!!!  "Divorce Heal"

It's painful when you have to start over ...

A powerful heart-healing remedy to dissolve heartbreak, rejection, animosity and rancour, and other long-held negative emotions.  Helps you heal and let go of the past.  This essence is helpful for healing the pain of any type of relationship or partnership that has caused anger, animosity and negative feelings  


Use 21-66 days

30 ml  $30 (21 days)  ~  60 ml  $50


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Control Release



"Control Release"

Life happens....and you can't control it ... 

Control Release releases inner tension, fear, and judgment.  It allows you to accept and gracefully adapt to changes around you

Use 21-66 days

30 ml  $30   ~  60 ml @ $50


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Everything changes when you suddenly become a caregiver ...

A helpful supportive essence for caregivers of loved ones with serious or terminal illness.  Provides comforting support and restores your inner balance and energy when you feel depleted, overburdened, and overwhelmed

Use as needed   


15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50


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AH Flexible"AH Flexible"

When you are resisting change and and it starts to affect you physically ...

When change in your life is resisted, or desired change is thwarted, your body may begin to mirror your mental state.  Resistance will show up as inflexibility and pain in your joints, especially ankles, knees, and hips--the areas of your body that literally propel you forward 

AH FLEXIBLE is a topical essence fusion that may promote flexibility and ease of movement.  Starts to work in minutes.  May enhance the efficacy of natural therapies such as massage, acupuncture, or reflexology.  Apply topically to area of stiffness and pain  

Convenient atomizer.  Use topically as needed

30 ml topical atomizer @ $30 ~ 60 ml atomizer @ $50

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