Enlightened Feelings Living Flower Essences


Stress & Anxiety Relief


Our safe, gentle effective natural remedies are carefully selected and extensively field tested to release the effects of stress and anxiety across a broad range of related causes, situations, and personality types.  These live flower essences address the underlying energetic and emotional imbalances that manifest as stress, anxiety, PTSD, and social inhibitions.   Our live flower frequencies help to gently calm and relax your nervous system naturally, thereby eliminating the stress response.  Full instructions are provided with each essence remedy


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Stress Buster"Stress Buster!"

Stress Buster works fast and fits in your pocket or purse!  We call it 'serenity in a bottle'! 

Energetically instills inner calmness and serene balance without losing focus.  Quickly and effectively relieves the effects of everyday stress while retaining mental alertness.  Lasts ALL day! 

"Stress Buster has widened and softened my energy, plus I wake up singing happy songs, like spring birds do"  Anita L Toronto ON

A relaxed state of serenity is one of the best natural ways to alleviate headaches, pain, tension and stiffness in the neck, shoulders and back of the head caused by stress tension.  Use at bedtime to calm mental chatter and stress to allow more restful sleep.  Or add to a bath for ultra-relaxation.   

I use Stress Buster almost every night at bedtime.  I spritz it on tense shoulders and neck muscles to relax them.   3 spritzes in the mouth helps me relax and stay in the moment so I can fall asleep quickly and awaken refreshed.  I just don't have as good a night's sleep when I forget to use it."  Lori D'Ascenzo 

Not suited for children and pets.  Use Zen to relieve stress in children or pets

Use as needed    

30 ml atomizer @ $30  ~  60 ml atomizer @ $50
Also available in our Stress Relief Pack

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"The stress buster was miraculous as this was the first time I tried it topically. I was having a sore neck just before I was leaving for a short trip. The last time I had this I had to go see a chiropractor. My neck was better within a couple hours of spraying this."  Shelly C  Toronto ON

"Sprayed stress buster inside my mouth and on back of my outer jaw. Also on my neck and shoulders. The tension that I hold there daily melted away within minutes. I carry daily tension and never have much relief. I can't wait to take a bath in it. So looking forward to using my blessings tomorrow. Thank u soooo of much"  DR TX

"I have been under tremendous stress from a change of residence.  Anything that can go wrong has gone wrong.  Everyone has commented on how calm and steady I am though all of this.  It has to be the Stress Buster!"   Wendy W  Pt Colborne ON


"I woke up with a nasty leg cramp. (a rare occurrence)  I literally had to walk on my toes in order to grab Stress Buster.  I sprayed it on and within in seconds the cramp eased. Whew!"    Nancy W  Buffalo NY




Worry Free




"Worry Free"

Quells worry and allows you to stay in the moment and stop fretting.  Helps you feel Divinely protected and in the now.  Helpful for anxiety


Use as needed  

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50  


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Control Release

"Control Release"

Releases perfectionism and the need to control and judge.  Ideal for people who create "rules" in their life in order to stay safe and avoid emotional pain.  Allows you to relax, let go, and trust in the outcome.  Helps take a lot of stress out of relationships and daily life!


Use 21-42 days    

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50

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"Since taking the Control Release for only one week I can tell that I am more willing to open up and relax both physically and emotionally.  It has struck me how much of my contracted state is actually a form of control, a kind of refusing to say yes to life.  I just had never thought of how my resistance to being in my body was a form of control."  Sally S  Columbia Falls MT




I Am Flexible
"I Am Flexible" 
No more 'meltdowns'!  Very calming and de-stressing!  I AM FLEXIBLE promotes acceptance, adaptability, flexibility, open willingness, co-operation, allowance for new ideas and new ways, risk-taking, and a greater sense of adventure.  Assists relationships by promoting a more open, neutral exchange and acceptance of other points of view.  When you soften your view of situations everything changes!  May help to open the mind to new ways of doing things 
"I just wanted to tell you I had the best restful night of sleep last night that I have had all year. Thank you so much."  Pauline P NOTL ON
Subtly helps to stop obsessing over something.  Useful for OCD and some types of addiction (especially opiates).  Also helpful in times of stressful change, such as during house renovations of when you are the caregiver for someone.  May also be helpful for those who need to come up with a different approach to a problem or situation
Use 21-42 days for control issues such as an inflexible attitude
Use daily as needed for stress relief
30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

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"I have long wondered what the statement 'don't resist' meant in terms of allowing change. Since taking the flower essences, I am able to realize my resistance reactions to change.  I realize the words, thought and feelings I have in relation to something I don't like IS the resistance. I have connected these thought patterns to feelings of tightness around my middle torso and lower chest. Right where the liver, kidneys and heart are."  Jeanne H  El Cerrito CA







Promotes acceptance, grace, and making peace with the past and those things you cannot change.  Allows an effortless letting go and stops persistence of anxious or angry feelings.  Helps you to surrender and accept what cannot be changed so you can move on without bitterness  

Helpful when you can forgive but still feel the hurt and animosity of wrongs done to you and want to be able to feel free and in balance


Use 21-66 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50  


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"I have to say, I am so grateful that I started the Serenity when I did. It has really helped me with all this craziness going on in the world, and despite all the craziness I have had some very beautiful and powerful moments because of the essence!"  Sarah A  Paso Robles CA




EMF Shield



"EMF Shield"

Uses nature's wisdom to counteract the stressful effects of EMF frequencies on the human body!  Flower frequencies help to harmonically relax the nervous system and calm hyper-alert parasympathetic response


Use as needed 1-2 times a day    

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50


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One of the primary causes of stress is the negative energies of other people!  Now you can safely shield yourself, stay positive in the midst of negativity, and set healthy boundaries

"Love love love that stuff.. its like a relief!! Thank you!"  Cindy R  Park Ridge NJ 

Shield is a natural, drug-free way to quell anxiety and stress by providing an energetic shield to protect you from psychic attack, negativity, and ‘toxic’ people.  It is helpful for those who feel drained, ill, 'jangled', or out of sorts after being with others. 

Shield also counteracts the stressful compromise of having to be in workplaces or situations that are not aligned with your personal and spiritual values.  It is especially beneficial for those who are ultra-sensitive to EMF's, computers, and environmental stimulus

Use as needed   

30 ml  @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50     

Also available in our Stress Relief Pack

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"Just wanted to let you know how much I love Shield. I’ve never slept better. No more early morning “wake ups” with other people’s stuff"  SJ AZ


"I find it soooooo helpful throughout the day when I am around a school full of teenage kids!!!"  Meg K  Teacher St Catharines ON


"Shield for Children"   30 ml  @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50

"Shield for Pets"   30 ml  @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50




Chill Out


"Chill Out"

Instills serene relaxed well-being and relaxation with uplifting feelings.  Remember what it feels like when you've been on vacation for a week?   THAT's 'Chill Out'! 

This essence can mellow those who are too serious and intensely focused in their work (and that make you more pleasant to be around!).  It is also calming for those who are hyperactive


Use for 3-5 days at a time  

Available in 15 ml @ $15  ~  30 ml @ $30  


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Instills a deep serene, zen-like peace and inner balance.  Provides profound stress relief


Use as needed

Also suitable for children at a lower dose   

15 ml @ $15  ~  30 ml  $30  


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Drama Free"Drama Free"

90% of your long-term happiness comes from how you process your experiences--whether you are an optimist or pessimist, and whether you focus on the positive or the negative

DRAMA FREE is designed especially for those who are inverting their true power, leadership and charisma by always focusing on the negative and dramatizing their challenges and tribulations rather than their blessings and positive achievements.   DRAMA FREE keeps you from being knocked off balance by dramas and helps you remain neutral in the midst of chaos.  Helps release negative expectations.  Quells the tendency to see one's self as a victim of fate 

Ideal for those who tend to over-react and blow situations out of proportion, or dramatize whatever happens to them.  Supports you as you choose to use your dramatic qualities as positive, inspiring, enthusiastic leadership (or in acting/theatre!)

DRAMA FREE is also helpful for those who associate with negative people and 'drama queens'.  Stops you from taking on other people's dramas, crises, and problems  

This essence formula is very helpful for overcoming adrenal fatigue and for adrenaline 'addiction' (use for 42-66 days for adrenaline imbalances)

Symptoms you are a 'drama queen':

  • attract crisis and chaos
  • attract other people who are always in crisis or chaos or need help
  • talk about/share your problems with others.  Then reject assistance when people offer advice or help 
  • overly-descriptive, exaggerate or dramatize
  • have negative expectations
  • always focus on the negative in every situation
  • happy when receiving attention, sympathy, approval or praise, or being in the spotlight
  • are not using your natural enthusiasm, leadership, or ability to inspire others in positive ways
  • give away your power by believing you are a victim of fate


Use 21-66 days to break negative drama habit  

Use for 42-66 days to break adrenaline addiction

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50


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The very essence of graceful mind-body-spirit harmony.  Restores flow of universal connection when you feel disconnected, stuck, stalled, blocked, or 'off your game'.  Helps to release resistance, frustration, fear, worry, guilt, and resulting shoulder tension and neck stiffness.  Calms your mood and creates inner balance with energy to act.  Places you in 'the zone' to use the law of attraction 

Flow is also ideal for those days you don't have time to meditate.  It helps you maintain inner balance and universal connectedness. 


Use as needed

15 ml  @ $15  ~ 30 ml  @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50

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"I have already noticed an improvement in my mindset and well being from the Flow and Restore essences I have started using."  Holly J  Sarasota FL





"Restore" for Post Traumatic Stress and ultra-sensitivity

Created to help overwrite post traumatic stress and highly traumatic emotional experiences.  Works quickly and effortlessly to dissolve shock, despair, disillusionment, and panic caused by trauma.  Dissolves chaos and static within the energy field and instills a feeling of smooth, expansive wholeness and joy

RESTORE also instills supportive grounding and balance to keep you feeling solid and stable.  It helps restore optimism and innocence that was lost

When used for 3-5 days immediately following a trauma it will quickly act to reverse the negative effects of the experience and restore balance.  Use for 21 or more days when traumatic stress is long-held

RESTORE is also very helpful for those who are highly sensitive and easily distraught or shocked by violence, negative movies, books or television shows, or are overwhelmed by social injustice, animal abuse, or all the wrongs in the world, and feel helplessness to change anything.  Helps to promote calm acceptance and releases the feeling of burden and injustice


Use for 21-66 days for PSTD  

Use as needed for hyper-sensitivity

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml @ $50

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"I absolutely loved RESTORE .... it was grounding, uplifting and I just felt it was right"  Neeta K Toronto ON

"I have already noticed an improvement in my mindset and well being from the Flow and Restore essences I have started using."  Holly J  Sarasota FL




Rescue & Revive"Rescue & Revive"

Promotes rapid recovery from trauma or anxiety!  This emergency essence is a grounding, calming stabilizer when administered following any shock to your system.   Its calming, grounding frequencies make it wonderful for restoring mental stability and calm balance during anxiety or panic attacks, following arguments or other emotional traumas, or to recover from shock following an accident, fall or fright   

Increases grounding and focus when taken shortly before tests or exams, job interviews, or public speaking.  Helps promote a feeling of peace, wellbeing and clarity

!!!  Contains alcohol.  Do not use before drug-testing 

Safe and effective for Children and Pets, too!  


Use as needed

        15 ml @ $15  ~  30 ml  @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50

Also available in our Stress Relief Pack


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"I had a bad fall; sprained my wrist, cracked some ribs and was pretty shook up and in pain.  When I got home I immediately took Rescue & Revive.  Within a minute it started to work.  I didn't realize how much the trauma had affected me until the R & R quickly relaxed my body and released the trauma and pain and nauseous jangled feeling. That felt better!"   Lori D'Ascenzo




Social Butterfly


"Social Butterfly"

A feel-good essence for mild social anxiety, and for those who feel awkward, shy, or introverted. Helpful for introverts.  Promotes greater confidence, personal ease, relaxation and comfort in social situations


Use as needed  

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30

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"I was dreading New Years.  But, I took Social Butterfly and surprised myself by having a wonderful time at the party. I found a new ease when talking to people and I wasn't self-conscious when dancing"  Lori D  Thorold ON






A helpful supportive essence for caregivers and those who are carrying excessive burdens and responsibilities and are experiencing stress and overwhelm. Provides comforting support and restores your inner balance and energy when you feel weighed down and all alone

Helpful in replenishing and instills strength to those whose job goes without recognition or appreciation, such as support workers, hospice aides, interns, assistants or volunteers.  Very supportive for those who have taken on burdens and responsibilities as caregivers for family members or others    

Also a great self-support when you are working on projects with deadlines or pressure.  Helps you to feel that you are competent and capable


Use 3-5 days or daily as needed   

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

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NEW improved formula!  A gentle drug-free sleep aid for those who habitually cannot quiet their mind at bedtime.  The frequencies of this essence help induce healthy, restful sleep by stopping mind-chatter and allowing you to relax into the moment and let yourself fall gently asleep.  

RESTFUL entrains your brain to help it cycle properly into all 4 phases of healthy restful sleep, so you can awaken refreshed.  Increases dreaming and enhances problem-solving during the dream experience  

This is NOT a sleeping pill and does not cause dependancy or morning grogginess.   You are able to awaken if needed, and fall back to sleep promptly.  Used nightly for 3-6 nights RESTFUL will gently 'train' your mind to become still and fall into a healthy sleep without resisting.  May be added to the bath   View the scientific evidence...

Learn 12 causes of insomnia and discover more than a dozen simple natural solutions for sleeplessness ...


Use for 3-6 days.  Then as needed    

15 ml @ $15 ~ 30 ml @ $30   

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These recorded brainwave patterns of a test subject show how quickly Restful begins to normalize sleep cycles.  Brainwaves in healthy sleep should cycle through Alpha (7.8-11 htz dream state), Delta (4-7.8 htz) and Theta (1.8-4 htz)  3-4 times during the night. 

Abnormal sleep pattern Sleep patter using sleeping pillsHealthy sleep pattern after using Restful3rd day of using Restful--90% quality sleep

Image 1 shows an abnormal sleep pattern before treatment with 86% quality sleep and almost 9 hours of sleep required.  Image 2 shows a brain wave pattern using drugs to produce 88% quality sleep, but very little dreaming (problem-solving), with almost 9.5 hours of sleep required, and a groggy morning awake-time.  The third image shows normal brain wave patterns after using Restful.  The sleeper awakes rested and alert with 89% quality sleep after less than 8.5 hours.  The 4th image is after 3 days using Restful.  After only 3 days, the brain waves have normalized to produce 90% quality sleep, requiring only 8 hours of sleep



Stress Relief Pack!  4 of our most popular essence remedies to help you reduce the detrimental energetic effects of daily stress while augmenting mental balance and alertness  

$90 value  $69.98  (Save$20)


Stress Relief Pack

     .Stress Buster   30 ml atomizer
     .Shield    30 ml
     .Rescue & Revive   15 ml
     .Restful   15 m

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*Individual bottles of your favorite remedies may be re-ordered in any size



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