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Self Nurturing and Self-Love


Loving others begins with loving and nurturing yourself first!  How can you feel loved and give love freely if you don't feel lovable?  How can you expect others treat you with love, respect and tenderness, if you aren't treating yourself with love, tenderness and respect? 

see also Heart Healing

see also Healing Your Past



Nurturer in Balance
"Nurturer In Balance"
Helps you hold your balance as a natural nurturer.  This essence fusion is so very helpful for naturally loving nurturers who fall out balance due to always looking after everyone else's needs except their own!  
It is ideal for women who are self-sacrificing, especially for their family, as well as those whose careers are in nurturing professions, such as nurses, alternative healers and empaths, and for those who tend to be 'rescuers' and want to 'fix' or help everyone
NURTURER IN BALANCE keeps you from being overly nurturing, from taking your work home with you mentally and energetically, and from 'rescuing'.  It instills the balance needed to stop you from being a selfless martyr and prompts you to look after your own needs while you help others
NURTURER IN BALANCE may also bring out nurturing, loving qualities in those who struggle with being  nurturing.  
NURTURER IN BALANCE may also assist with weight issues that result from constantly absorbing the energies of others
Use for 3-5 days as needed
30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50
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Be Kind to Yourself


"Be Kind To Yourself"

For those times you really need gentle self-nurturing and self-kindness.  Provides a feeling of comfort like a nurturing mother.  Also ideal when you really need a hug and no one's there to give one

Use for 3-5 days as needed


30 ml  $30

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A helpful supportive essence for women who are carrying heavy burdens and responsibilities alone. Provides comforting support and restores your inner balance and energy when you don’t receive support, help, or encouragement from others.  Helpful in replenishing the energy and stamina of women who are caregivers for an ill spouse or elderly parents.  Supports those who work without recognition or appreciation in jobs as caretakers for others  

Use for 3-5 days when needed


15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50


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Women's Vitality



"Women's Vitality"

Created for women whose emotional issues, intense sense of responsibility and over-nurturing of others may have manifested as thyroid issues, weight gain, low energy, edema, hormonal issues and menopause.  WOMEN'S VITALITY helps to restore energy and vitality and promotes self-care

Use for 21 days, then as needed


30 ml  $30  


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Deep Wounds of Childhood"Deep Wounds of Childhood"

Childhood issues are especially painful and negatively impact your life in many ways, preventing you from being nurturing, or accepting nurturing.  This essence fusion prompts the release and healing of all types of childhood pain, including abuse, abandonment, and lack of nurturing or love.  Helps you make lasting peace with your past 

This essence is also helpful when the issues you have about your mother cause you judge yourself as a mother.  Helps you to feel more accepting of yourself and more loving and nurturing toward your children    

This profound essence remedy can be a little emotionally uncomfortable for a day or two while you are purging all the long suppressed damaging experiences of your childhood  

We recommend taking 'Be Kind to Yourself' following or along with this essence to soften the temporary emotional discomfort and provide gentle self-nurturing that feels like a big grandma hug

Try Sweet Innocence after this essence  

Use for 21-42 days.  For traumatic childhood abuse, you may need a 42 day remedy or a secondary essence fusion such as ForgivenessSexual Abuse Release, or I Am Not a Victim 

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50   

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"I can see life and my life from a different point of view w/o so much interference. I found myself forgiving on a deeper level and in the process releasing un-forgiveness from places in my body where it had gotten stored/stuck"  Margie D

"I took the drops in the morning as directed.  The next morning I woke up with a dream still in my mind, where I was standing in a long hall, my goal was at the other end of the hall, and there was a mountain of junk between me and my goal.  The next minute the mountain of junk had been parted like the Red Sea, junk on either side, some of it gone, but a clear path from where I was standing to my goal, and the understanding that I could just walk the path to my goal, or I could let the junk distract me, I could let the junk pull my focus back to it, and not be focused on the goal, free will, my choice.  Every morning that week I woke up with dreams that were stuff to be cleared, which I sent into the Sacred Fire, and the next week the dreams were no longer clear in my mind, like they were just being cleared themselves, as I had built up some momentum.  Happier now than 2 weeks ago for sure ..."  Heather H  Allan SK CA



Beloved Inner Child


"Beloved Inner Child"   

This gentle loving essence reclaims your inner child.  Gently nurtures, heals, and helps you love your wounded or self-abandoned inner child.  Helps to you feel more playful, innocent, happy and carefree.  It lets your inner heart sing!

Use for 3-5 days as needed, or for 21 days for deeper issues


21 days  30 ml @ $30  


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Young at Heart



"Young at Heart"

An uplifting lighthearted playful feel-good essence that is rather reminiscent of what it felt like when you were youthful and carefree.  Opens you to pleasure


Use for 3-5 days as needed

15 ml  @ $15  ~  30 ml  $30


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Abandonment Heal"Abandonment Heal"   

Have you abandoned yourself in your need for security and safety?  Have you given away parts of yourself to be loved or needed?

Negative feelings such as feeling unlovable may come to the surface when you experience rejection from someone.  But, the root of those feelings is a neediness and insecurity that caused you to compromise your own wants and needs to try to make someone else love and need you 

ABANDONMENT HEAL releases and overwrites feelings of loss, sorrow, heartache, emptiness, and feeling unloved or unlovable, rejected or abandoned, and replaces these disempowering feelings with a feeling of comfort and self-nurturing   

We recommend following this essence with MY AUTHENTIC SELF  


Use for 21-66 days  

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml $50  

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I Feel Loved
"I Feel Loved"
"Under the sustaining influence of love, the physical body is always at its best.  It is probably true that more people are sick from lack of love in their lives than from all other causes put together"  Eric Butterworth
A wonderful warm-and-fuzzy antidote for anyone who is alone, or feeling alone and unloved.  You'll feel softly enveloped in positive, loving feelings.  It is almost like being in love!
Use for 3 or more days whenever needed


30 ml  $30  

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I Am Lovable


"I Am Lovable"

A sweet essence to help you to feel more lovable and willing and able to accept and receive love  

By promoting gentle sweet self-love, I AM LOVABLE allows you to believe when others tell you that they love you, and helps you to accept and receive when people want to do nice things for you

Use for 3-5 days whenever needed


21 days  30 ml  $30

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"Self Acceptance"

Be kinder to yourself!  A lovely gentle essence to help you love and accept yourself and your body-- just as you are.  Ends being self-critical


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50 


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"Self Forgiveness"

A lovely sweet essence fusion to prompt self forgiveness and inner peace.  Releases self-recrimination, self-judgment and grudges against self.  Helps you to feel more loving toward yourself  

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml  $30   ~  60 ml  $50

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I Am Deserving"I Am Deserving"

A powerful, life-altering self-love essence fusion!  Overrides negative messages you've been receiving from others and from yourself that you are flawed, unworthy, not entitled, or undeserving.  Helps to instill self-acceptance, confidence and ease 

Tends to draw what you desire and compels you to accept and welcome benefits, love, and better treatment by others

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml  $30  ~ 60 ml  $50 

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"I have noticed some shifts already in my ability to receive, with little synchronicities occurring, generosity, and ah-a insights. I am looking forward to the next 17 days of increased deservingness"  Jennifer B  Santa Fe NM





Love Yourself



"Love Yourself"

Instills uplifting happy feelings of self love that feel like a sweet, kind, feel-good self-hug

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50   

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A lovely yin essence fusion to support and strengthen feminine energies.  Deeply grounding and receptive, feels likes Gaia with undertones of 'femme fatale' sensuality.  Subtle and almost indescribable in its alluring effect

21 days.  Repeat whenever desired for 3-5 days 


30 ml  $30

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Love Magnet


"Love Magnet"

Helps to focus the energy of your body and mind on feelings of love and closeness, while accentuating feelings of attractiveness and drawing others to you.  Helps improve relationship skills and deepen connections that are vital for relationships of all kinds.  Attracts love, closeness, and affection of all kinds  

For ideal results use Love Magnet after you have dissolved any lingering grief, defensiveness, or despair with our Heart Healing essence fusions, and have achieved a healthy self-esteem with our Empowering essence fusions  

Use 3-5 days.  Repeat every 4-8 weeks 


15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml @ $30  

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"Love Magnet is definitely working. Physiologically, I feel good, I feel vibrant and energetic. And I'm also manifesting things that I have been wanting for a very long time... little things that meant a lot to me.  In addition to that, I've been feeling more frisky in terms of feeling softer in my heart and overall disposition. I have even been kinder to my ex and more gracious. It feels like I've let a lot of this hard exterior shell go. Which is a good thing."  Isis T  Annapolis MD

"I thought some great romance would suddenly show up at my door.  But, instead, I found that my friends and family were inexplicably more loving toward me.  Then, on day 3 of the essence, out of the blue, a male platonic friend suddenly became cuddly and affectionate and wanted to take our friendship to a new level.  Not what I expected.  But interesting!"  Wendy W  Pt Colborne



My Authentic Self"My Authentic Self" 

This is the ideal essence for those who have self-image problems such as low self-esteem, attracting the wrong partners, neediness or discomfort being alone, hiding your true feelings or true self and order to keep the peace, and for those who compromise their own needs in order make others happy.  In an effort to be accepted, sociable, cooperative, and liked by others, you may be compromising your needs and losing who you really are and what you need to sustain yourself

Not being your true self results in loneliness (even when with others), unfulfilling relationships, low self esteem, and never getting your needs met.  How can you ever be loved just for yourself, or find the right partner for yourself, if no one sees the real you?

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


21 days  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

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"Throughout the days I was taking it, I fell in love with myself. I am important and I matter. I am amazed with myself now and how I respond and feel about things. What other people say, those that bother me before, does not have much weight now. The thoughts of others, those that I assume they have of me, do not matter. I feel good about me. It feels good to be detached from useless thoughts and emotions. I'm excited to move on to other flower essences and become a better me in the process. I'm grateful to have found you and your flower essences. It's a wonderful blessing."  Maria G  Oxnard CA




Forgiveness is the most wonderful freeing gift to yourself!  It brings peace and grace  

Forgive yourself.  Forgive others.  Find inner peace in the release of resentment, grudges, anger, indignation, and judgment 

"Forgiveness Essence is amazing!"  Mychelle W  San Diego CA

  21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml  $50

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"The importance of forgiving yourself cannot be stated strongly enough.  If you carry around thoughts of shame about what you've done in the past, you're weakening yourself both physically and emotionally."  Dr Wayne Dyer





Guilt Release

"Guilt Release"

Effortlessly releases guilt and shame to allow you to be more loving and kind toward yourself.  Dissolves negative self-talk and feeling bad about yourself.  Helps you feel free and able to set healthy boundaries to not let others take advantage of you.  Allows you to see situations with greater clarity, logic, and a higher perspective so you don't automatically accept blame  

   21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days


30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50


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Mother Healing

"Mother Healing"

A nurturing, comforting essence fusions that gently heals all female relationships in your life and also eases your own struggles and insecurities as a mother and nurturer.  Releases, heals, and overwrites long-held emotional pain, anger, resentment, unwillingness to forgive, unrequited love, rejection, abandonment, longing for nurturing, and other negative feelings associated with unhealed mother or mothering issues, as well as ALL important female relationships in your life  

When you are unhealed with respect to your mother, you will feel unlovable and unable to accept or receive nurturing and love from others.  You may not know how to nurture yourself or others in healthy emotionally fulfilling ways.  Breast cancer and miscarriage commonly manifest from unhealed mother issues.  Mother Healing allows you to transcend your past and see your challenging feminine relationships from a higher perspective.  when you change, your relationships and everything else in your life begins to shift in positive ways


Use for 21-66 days

30 ml  $30  ~ 60 ml  $50   

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"I feel really great today... calm... nurtured & mostly not looking for food.  I really feel satisfied.  My heart feels sooo full & I didn't take anything else today.  Yesterday spent a beautiful day with my mom ...  it was lovely & she was soooo loving..♥️♥️  Truly a beautiful remedy ... Mother Healing"   Mary Rose Didiano  Dynamic Wellness Solutions  Woodbridge ON

I began taking the remedy with the idea that despite working on my relationship with my mother, who was abusive in my childhood, that I still had old feelings and responses to her to clear.  Soon after taking the remedy I noticed that she was being a lot softer with me and I felt really happy rather than nervous or anxious talking with her. When I finished the remedy it was almost as if a magic spell had been cast on both of us as there was no longer any animosity or tension in our communication and relationship. The changes here are dramatic and striking. Most importantly, what seemed impossible before in our relationship had now become possible! Thank you for making this incredible shift in my life take place"  Kristina P  Bellingham WA



Self-Love Trio

Self-Love Trio 

Use whenever needed for self-nurturing, inner balance, and replenishment!   

    .I Am Deserving  to help you feel more worthy and lovable  30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   to promote self-nurturing and self-care   30 ml
    .Self Acceptance  to help you lovingly accept yourself and your body   30 ml


$90 value  $80  (Save $10)  

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*Individual bottles of your favorite remedies may be re-ordered in any size



Self-Care Pack

Self-Care Pack 

Use whenever needed for self-nurturing, replenishment and support!    

    .Nurturer in Balance  to help you nurture yourself as much as others   30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   to promote self-nurturing and self-care   30 ml
    .Support  replenishment and support for caregivers   30 ml


$90 value  $80  (Save $10) 




*Individual bottles of your favorite remedies may be re-ordered in any size

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