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Loving others begins with loving and nurturing yourself first!  How can you feel loved and give love freely if you don't feel lovable?  How can you be angry at others for not treating you with love, respect and tenderness, if you aren't treating yourself with love, tenderness, and respect?  How can your love and nurturing keep spill out into the outer world if you aren't healing and replenishing the inner world within yourself?  


see also Healing Your Childhood Trauma



Nurturer in Balance
"Nurturer In Balance"
NURTURER IN BALANCE is helpful for loving nurturers and healers like you,who fall out balance because they are always looking after everyone else's needs except their own!  
There is a difference between 'smother love' and 'mother love.'  NURTURER IN BALANCE keeps you from being an overly nurturing caregiver to your family and others.  It gently deters you from taking your work home with you mentally and energetically, and from needing to 'rescue' others.  It helps you hold your balance as a natural nurturer, stops you from being a selfless martyr, and prompts you to look after your own needs in healthy ways so you can better help others
NURTURER IN BALANCE is ideal for women who are self-sacrificing, especially for their family, as well as those whose careers are in nurturing professions, such as nurses, alternative healers and empaths, and for those who tend to be 'rescuers' and want to 'fix' or help everyone
"I found the Nurturer in Balance helped me tackle “stuff” around the house without getting negative, resentful, and annoyed at everyone, and not getting overwhelmed"  Carrie P  Welland ON
NURTURER IN BALANCE may also bring out nurturing, loving qualities in those who struggle with being nurturing.  It may also assist with weight issues that result from constantly absorbing the energies of others through over-nurturing, or from using food as a substitute for self-nurturing
Use for 3-5 days as needed
30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50
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Empath Attunement"Empath Attunement"

A powerfully transforming essence that begins by clearing deep subconscious karmic weaknesses which prevent you from fulfilling your empathic gifts and fully.  The essence then goes on to prompt an inner evolution.  You shift beyond the empathic ability to feel people’s feelings and begin to move deeper to connect at the soul level where you feel and perceive people differently—with deeper compassion, neutrality, and detached understanding.  At the same time as your energy moves outward, you are inwardly stronger, more balanced and stable, and feel secure in your power and protection 


"The biggest change is I'm not bombarded with the thoughts and energy of other people anymore.  I'm unaware of what they think of me.  Nice."  Evelyn R  TX 


Where previously your empathic abilities or introversion may have led you to feel insecure, anxious, or out of balance in social situations because you either sensed insincerity, were overwhelmed by sensory input, felt drained and out-of-sorts afterward, or felt no kinship with others, EMPATH ATTUNEMENT allows you to interact with others while feeling centred, confident and connected.  Your energy remains strong and you do not feel drained or out of balance    

This essence has also demonstrated an ability to clear hexes and curses   


Use as needed for up to 7 days at a time   

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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Be Kind to Yourself


"Be Kind To Yourself"

Have you been neglecting yourself and your own needs?  Are you nurturing yourself the way you nurture others?  Self-nurturing is important at any age!  

BE KIND TO YOURSELF prompts self-kindness and self-nurturing when you are too busy with life or caring for others.  It prompts you to pay attention to your own needs, to take time for yourself and set some boundaries  


This essence fusion is also very nurturing and supportive adjunct while you are healing your past with any of our heart healing essence fusions.  It provides an uplifting feeling of comfort and nurturing that is so vitally important 

Also helpful as a 'warm fuzzy' when you really need a hug and no one's there to give one


Use for 3-5 days as needed

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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Self-Care Pack

Self-Care Pack  

Use whichever one of these essences is most appropriate when you need self-nurturing, replenishment and support!    

    .Nurturer in Balance  Helps you hold your balance and replenish yourself while nurturing others   30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   Promotes self-nurturing, self-kindness and self-care   30 ml
    .Support  Provides replenishment, strength and support when you are a caregiver   30 ml


Use 3-5 days when needed

$90 value  $80  (Save $10) 





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Created for those who are exhausted in body and mind after a long period of personal difficulties, from the burden of caregiving someone for a long period of time, or from overwork or excessive work burdens

Supports and nourishes those caring for an ailing parent, child, or spouse, and those in nurturing careers such as nursing, FACS, or PSW roles.  Provides comforting support, strength, restores your inner balance and replenishes energy when you don’t receive support, help, or encouragement from others

It also supports and sustains those who work without recognition or appreciation in jobs as caretakers or executive assistants for others


SUPPORT is also very beneficial for those who feel burdened or overwhelmed by work projects.  It helps replenish energy and stamina.  It increases energy, focus and determination for those who are self-employed.  SUPPORT helps instil calm feelings of being capable, and a sense of 'I can handle this'.  


SUPPORT can be applied topically to ease lower back pain caused by carrying emotional burdens or not feeling supported  


Use for 3-5 days when needed

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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"Self Acceptance"

Be kinder to yourself!  This lovely gentle essence will help you effortlessly love and accept yourself and your body just as you are.  Ends being self-critical and self-punishing


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $5

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I Am Deserving"I Am Deserving"

A powerful, life-altering self-love formula!  

Overrides negative messages you've been receiving from others and from yourself that you are flawed, unworthy, not entitled, or undeserving.  Helps to instill self-acceptance, and enhance self-care, confidence, personal boundaries, and inner ease 


"I have noticed some shifts already in my ability to receive, with little synchronicities occurring, generosity, and ah-a insights. I am looking forward to the next 17 days of increased deservingness"  Jennifer B  Santa Fe NM


Compels you to accept and welcome benefits, love, and better treatment by others


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

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Self-Love Trio

Self-Love Trio  

Use whenever needed for self-nurturing, inner balance, and replenishment!   

    .I Am Deserving  to help you feel more worthy and lovable  30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   to promote self-nurturing and self-care   30 ml
    .Self Acceptance  to help you lovingly accept yourself and your body   30 ml


$90 value  $80  (Save $10)  

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Women's Vitality

"Women's Vitality"

Created for women whose intense sense of responsibility and over-nurturing of others may have manifested into health issues such as thyroid issues, weight gain, low energy, edema, hormonal issues and menopause.  WOMEN'S VITALITY helps to restore energy and vitality and promotes self-care

Since over-nurturing often stems from childhood emotional experiences, consider pairing WOMEN'S VITALITY with one of our essence remedies for childhood issues 


Use for 21 days, then as needed

30 ml  $30   

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Mother Healing

"Mother Healing"

A nurturing, comforting essence fusion that gently heals all female relationships in your life and also eases your own struggles and insecurities as a mother and nurturer


"I feel really great today... calm... nurtured & mostly not looking for food.  I really feel satisfied.  My heart feels sooo full & I didn't take anything else today.  Yesterday spent a beautiful day with my mom ...  it was lovely & she was soooo loving..♥️♥️  Truly a beautiful remedy ... Mother Healing"   Mary Rose D.  Dynamic Wellness Solutions  Woodbridge ON


When you are unhealed with respect to your mother, you will feel unlovable and unable to accept or receive nurturing and love from others.  You may not know how to nurture yourself or others in healthy emotionally fulfilling ways.  Breast cancer and miscarriage commonly manifest from unhealed mother issues


I began taking the remedy with the idea that despite working on my relationship with my mother, who was abusive in my childhood, that I still had old feelings and responses to her to clear.  Soon after taking the remedy I noticed that she was being a lot softer with me and I felt really happy rather than nervous or anxious talking with her. When I finished the remedy it was almost as if a magic spell had been cast on both of us as there was no longer any animosity or tension in our communication and relationship. The changes here are dramatic and striking. Most importantly, what seemed impossible before in our relationship had now become possible! Thank you for making this incredible shift in my life take place"  Kristina P  Bellingham WA


MOTHER HEALING releases, heals, and overwrites long-held emotional pain, anger, resentment, unwillingness to forgive, rejection, abandonment, longing for nurturing, and other negative feelings associated with unhealed mother or mothering issues, and ALL important female relationships in your life  


"With this essence I do not get burdened with thoughts and anxieties with all the balancing I am doing.  I am able to face it all calmly and with an intuitive know how.  As this remedy has made such a huge impact in my life, I am confident that others will have miraculous results, as well "  Laura A  Toronto ON


MOTHER HEALING allows you to transcend your past and see your challenging feminine relationships from a higher perspective.  When you change, your relationships and everything else in your life begins to shift in positive ways


Use for 21-66 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50  

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Mother & Child Bond

"Mother & Child Bond"

The gentle frequencies of this essence can help new mothers, babies, children and orphaned pets to feel loved, wanted, cherished, nurtured, and secure

Instills a loving, protective urge and promotes healthy emotional bonding between mother and child.  Assists with forming new emotional bonds such as with adoption or fostering


This gentle essence fusion also helps counteract postpartum emotions, and rejection of a child.  Helpful when mother and infant have been separated, such as hospitalization, parental visitation order, or foster care


For babies and small children, simply add a few drops to bath water


Use for 21 days  

30 ml  $30

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Beloved Inner Child

"Beloved Inner Child"   

Nurture, heal, and instil love for your wounded inner child!  This gentle loving essence formula helps you get in touch with your wounded inner child to help you connect with what you need for healing, and which simple life pleasures bring you joy! 


Use 21 days for deep wounded-inner-child healing or 3-5 days when a light lift of carefree happiness is needed

30 ml  $30

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I Feel Loved
"I Feel Loved"
"Under the sustaining influence of love, the physical body is always at its best.  It is probably true that more people are sick from lack of love in their lives than from all other causes put together"  Eric Butterworth
A wonderful warm-and-fuzzy antidote for anyone who is alone, or feeling alone and unloved.  You'll feel softly enveloped in positive, loving feelings.  It is almost like being in love!
Use for 3-5 days (or longer) as needed

30 ml  $30  

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I Am Lovable

"I Am Lovable"

A sweet uplifting essence to help you to feel more lovable and willing and able to accept and receive love  

By promoting gentle sweet self-love, I AM LOVABLE allows you to believe when others tell you that they love you, and helps you to accept and receive when people want to do nice things for you


Use for 3-5 days whenever needed

30 ml  $30  

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Love Yourself



"Love Yourself"

Instills uplifting warm-fuzzy happy feelings of self love that feel like a sweet, kind, feel-good self-hug.  The ultimate in self-nurturing feelings!


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50   

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Young at Heart


"Young at Heart"

Treat yourself to feeling young at heart again!

An uplifting, lighthearted, playful feel-good essence that is rather reminiscent of what it felt like when you were youthful and carefree.  Opens you to pleasure and play.  


Use for 3-5 days as needed

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30

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"I love how it makes me feel. Very seductive and free and adventurous"  Denise A  Catawba NC

A yin essence fusion to support and strengthen suppressed feminine energies and qualities.  A blend of the frequencies of fragrant, highly feminine flowers to help you feel more like a woman!


"I am truly enjoying Goddess Essence. In my case, I would not describe the feeling as flirty, I feel more the Femme Fatale or quietly seductive. And although I look exactly the same as I did last month, men are staring at me! Now I can't wait to try Love Magnet."  Mychelle W  San Diego CA 


Become the essence of Venus, Aphrodite, Gaia, Goddess and Mother Earth combined.   Deeply grounding and receptive, an opening of subtle enticing sensual femininity that others can sense and feel within you.  Feels like Gaia with undertones of sensual 'femme fatale' ...seductiveness but with resilient strength


"The last time you sent me Goddess Essence I knew I was on to something. This is my second batch and it seems to be having an even stronger effect … I feel attractive and intriguing!!  But I’m not trying to feel this way, it’s coming from inside of me"  Mychelle W  San Diego CA


Use for 21 days.  Repeat when desired for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

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Deep Wounds of Childhood"Deep Wounds of Childhood"

Childhood issues can negatively impact your life in many ways, preventing you from being a nurturer, or accepting nurturing.   Do you feel you didn't receive nurturing or love you really needed from your mother?  Are you afraid of becoming a mom?  Or are you afraid of becoming just like your mother?    Are you unable to bear children?

This essence fusion prompts the release and healing of an absence of nurturing or love.  Helps you to feel more accepting of yourself in your role as a mother, and more loving and nurturing toward your children


If you experienced constant insecurity and fear, or a critical perfectionist parent during your childhood, we recommend Control Release prior to beginning this essence fusion 


"I can see life and my life from a different point of view w/o so much interference. I found myself forgiving on a deeper level and in the process releasing un-forgiveness from places in my body where it had gotten stored/stuck"  Margie D


In some cases this profound essence remedy can be a bit emotionally uncomfortable for a day while you while the long suppressed damaging experiences of your childhood come to the surface for release.  Acknowledge your feelings without censorship or judgment.  Then they will effortlessly dissolve and fade away   


Try 'BE KIND TO YOURSELF' following or along with this essence to soften any temporary emotional discomfort and provide gentle self-nurturing


Use for 21-42 days.  

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50   

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Abandonment Heal"Abandonment Heal"   

Have you abandoned your deepest feelings and needs in your fearful need for security and safety?  Have you suppressed parts of yourself in order to be loved or needed?

Negative feelings such as feeling unlovable may come to the surface when you experience rejection from someone.  But, the root of those feelings is a neediness and insecurity that caused you to compromise your own wants and needs to try to make someone else love and need you 

ABANDONMENT HEAL releases and overwrites feelings of loss, sorrow, heartache, emptiness, and feeling unloved or unlovable, rejected or abandoned, and replaces these disempowering feelings with a feeling of comfort and self-nurturing   


We recommend following up this essence with MY AUTHENTIC SELF  


Use for 21-66 days  

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

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Guilt Release

"Guilt Release"


Effortlessly releases guilt, shame, and self-judgment to allow you to be more loving and kind toward yourself.  Dissolves negative self-talk and feeling bad about yourself.  Helps you feel free and able to set healthy boundaries to not let others take advantage of you.  Allows you to see situations with greater clarity, logic, and a higher perspective so you don't automatically accept blame



21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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"Self Forgiveness"

"The importance of forgiving yourself cannot be stated strongly enough.  If you carry around thoughts of shame about what you've done in the past, you're weakening yourself both physically and emotionally."  Dr Wayne Dyer


A lovely sweet essence fusion to prompt self forgiveness and inner peace--the most wonderful kind of self-nurturing!  Releases self-recrimination, self-judgment and grudges against self.  Helps you to feel more loving toward yourself


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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Forgiveness is a most wonderful freeing self-nurturing gift to yourself!  It brings peace and grace and allows you to experience inner peace in the release of resentment, grudges, anger, indignation, and judgment 


"Forgiveness essence is amazing!"  Mychelle W  San Diego CA


21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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