Enlightened Feelings Living Flower Essences

 

Essence to Provide Support & Instil Healthy Self Nurturing

 

Loving others begins with loving and nurturing yourself first!  How can you feel loved and give love freely if you don't feel lovable?  How can you criticize others for not treating you with love, respect and tenderness, if you aren't treating yourself with love, tenderness and respect? 

see also Heart Healing

see also Healing Your Past

 

 

Nurturer in Balance
"Nurturer In Balance"
 
Helps you hold your balance as a natural nurturer.  This essence fusion is so very helpful for naturally loving nurturers who fall out balance due to always looking after everyone else's needs except their own!  
 
It is ideal for women who are self-sacrificing, especially for their family, as well as those whose careers are in nurturing professions, such as nurses, alternative healers and empaths, and for those who tend to be 'rescuers' and want to 'fix' or help everyone
 
 
"I found the Nurturer in Balance helped me tackle “stuff” around the house without getting negative, resentful, and annoyed at everyone and not getting overwhelmed"  Carrie P  Welland ON
 
 
There is a difference between 'smother love' and 'mother love.'  NURTURER IN BALANCE keeps you from being an overly nurturing caregiver to your family and others, from taking your work home with you mentally and energetically, and from needing to 'rescue' others.  It instills the balance needed to stop you from being a selfless martyr and prompts you to look after your own needs while you help others
 
NURTURER IN BALANCE may also bring out nurturing, loving qualities in those who struggle with being nurturing
 
NURTURER IN BALANCE may also assist with weight issues that result from constantly absorbing the energies of others through over-nurturing, or from using food as a substitute for self-nurturing
 
Use for 3-5 days as needed
 
30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50
 
 
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Empath Attunement"Empath Attunement"

A powerfully transforming essence that begins by clearing deep subconscious karmic weaknesses which prevent you from fulfilling your empathic gifts and fully.  The essence then goes on to prompt an inner evolution.  You shift beyond the empathic ability to feel people’s feelings and begin to move deeper to connect at the soul level where you feel and perceive people differently—with deeper compassion, neutrality, and detached understanding.  At the same time as your energy moves outward, you are inwardly stronger, more balanced and stable, and feel secure in your power and protection 

 

"The biggest change is I'm not bombarded with the thoughts and energy of other people anymore.  I'm unaware of what they think of me.  Nice."  Evelyn R  TX 

 

Where previously your empathic abilities or introversion may have led you to feel insecure, anxious, or out of balance in social situations because you either sensed insincerity, were overwhelmed by sensory input, felt drained and out-of-sorts afterward, or felt no kinship with others, EMPATH ATTUNEMENT allows you to interact with others while feeling centred, confident and connected.  Your energy remains strong and you do not feel drained or out of balance    

This essence has also demonstrated an ability to clear hexes and curses   

 

Use as needed for up to 7 days at a time   

15 ml  @ $15  ~  30 ml @ $30

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Be Kind to Yourself

 

"Be Kind To Yourself"

Have you been neglecting yourself?  Self-nurturing is important at any age!  

BE KIND TO YOURSELF prompts self-kindness and self-nurturing when you are too busy working, or caring for others.  It encourages you to pay attention to your own needs, to take time for yourself and set some boundaries  

 

This essence fusion is also very nurturing and supportive when you are choosing to heal your past with any of our heart healing essence fusions.  It provides an uplifting feeling of comfort and nurturing that is so vitally important 

Also ideal when you really need a hug and no one's there to give one

 

Use for 3-5 days as needed

 

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

 

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Support

"Support"

Created especially for those who are exhausted in body and mind after a long period of personal difficulties, from overwork or excessive burdens, or from caregiving or nursing someone for a long period of time

Helpful for those caring for an ailing parent or spouse, those in nursing, FACS, or PSW roles.  Provides comforting support, strength, and restores your inner balance and energy when you don’t receive support, help, or encouragement from others.  Lets you feel replenished and supported

Also very beneficial for those who feel burdened or overwhelmed by work projects, and those who are self-employed.  Helpful in replenishing energy and stamina.  Helps to instil calm feelings of being capable, and a sense of 'I can handle this'.  Supports those who work without recognition or appreciation in jobs as caretakers or assistants for others   

 

Use for 3-5 days when needed

 

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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Women's Vitality

 

"Women's Vitality"

Created for women whose emotional issues, intense sense of responsibility and over-nurturing of others may have manifested into health issues such as thyroid issues, weight gain, low energy, edema, hormonal issues and menopause.  WOMEN'S VITALITY helps to restore energy and vitality and promotes self-care

 

Use for 21 days, then as needed

30 ml  $30   

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Beloved Inner Child

 

"Beloved Inner Child"   

Nurture, heal, and love your wounded inner child.  This gentle loving essence helps you to feel as you did as a child--playful, innocent, happy and carefree.  It lets your inner heart sing! 

 

21 days for deep healing or 3-5 days when a light lift is needed

 

 

30 ml @ $30

 

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Goddess

"Goddess"

A yin essence fusion to support and strengthen your feminine energies and qualities.  A blend of the frequencies of fragrant, highly feminine flowers  

Become the essence of Venus, Aphrodite, Gaia, Goddess and Mother Earth combined.   Deeply grounding and receptive, an opening of subtle enticing sensual femininity that others can sense and feel within you.  Feels like Gaia with undertones of sensual 'femme fatale' ...seductiveness but with resilient strength

Use for 21 days.  Repeat when desired for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

 

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"I love how it makes me feel. Very seductive and free and adventurous"  Denise A  Catawba NC 

 

"I am truly enjoying Goddess Essence. In my case, I would not describe the feeling as flirty, I feel more the Femme Fatale or quietly seductive. And although I look exactly the same as I did last month, men are staring at me! Now I can't wait to try Love Magnet."  Mychelle W  San Diego CA

"The last time you sent me Goddess Essence I knew I was on to something. This is my second batch and it seems to be having an even stronger effect … I feel attractive and intriguing!!  But I’m not trying to feel this way, it’s coming from inside of me"  Mychelle W  San Diego CA

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Deep Wounds of Childhood"Deep Wounds of Childhood"

Are you afraid of becoming a mom?  Or are you afraid of becoming just like your mother?  Did you feel you didn't receive nurturing or love you really needed from your mother?  Are you unable to have children

Childhood issues are especially painful and negatively impact your life in many ways, preventing you from being a nurturer, or accepting nurturing.  This essence fusion prompts the release and healing of a lack of nurturing or love.  Helps you to feel more accepting of yourself in your role as a mother, and more loving and nurturing toward your children

 

If you experienced constant insecurity and fear or a critical, perfectionist parent during your childhood, we recommend Control Release prior to beginning this essence 

 

"I can see life and my life from a different point of view w/o so much interference. I found myself forgiving on a deeper level and in the process releasing un-forgiveness from places in my body where it had gotten stored/stuck"  Margie D

 

This profound essence remedy can be a little emotionally uncomfortable for a day or two while you are purging all the long suppressed damaging experiences of your childhood  

We recommend taking 'Be Kind to Yourself' following or along with this essence to soften the temporary emotional discomfort and provide gentle self-nurturing that feels like a big grandma hug

Try Sweet Innocence after this essence  

Use for 21-42 days.  

 

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50   

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Beloved Inner Child

 

"Beloved Inner Child"   

This gentle loving essence reclaims your inner child.  Gently nurtures, heals, and helps you love your wounded or self-abandoned inner child.  Helps to you feel more playful, innocent, happy and carefree.  It lets your inner heart sing!

Use for 3-5 days as needed, or for 21 days for deeper issues

 

30 ml  $30    

 

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Young at Heart

 

 

"Young at Heart"

An uplifting lighthearted playful feel-good essence that is rather reminiscent of what it felt like when you were youthful and carefree.  Opens you to pleasure and play

 

Use for 3-5 days as needed

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml  $30

 

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Abandonment Heal"Abandonment Heal"   

Have you abandoned yourself in your need for security and safety?  Have you given away parts of yourself to be loved or needed?

Negative feelings such as feeling unlovable may come to the surface when you experience rejection from someone.  But, the root of those feelings is a neediness and insecurity that caused you to compromise your own wants and needs to try to make someone else love and need you 

ABANDONMENT HEAL releases and overwrites feelings of loss, sorrow, heartache, emptiness, and feeling unloved or unlovable, rejected or abandoned, and replaces these disempowering feelings with a feeling of comfort and self-nurturing   

We recommend following this essence with MY AUTHENTIC SELF  

 

Use for 21-66 days  

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

 

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Comfort & Solace

 

"Comfort and Solace"   

Most helpful when used immediately before or following a bereavement, separation, euthanizing a pet, assisted suicide, or any significant loss

Do you have a loved one who is terminally ill?  Are you making the difficult decision to euthanize your pet? Have this essence on hand beforehand and start taking it a few days before your loss to lessen the pain and trauma.  Especially helpful when you have been the caregiver or guardian in a relationship, such as with a pet, child, parent, or terminally ill loved one  

Soothes sorrow, heartbreak and emptiness.  Helps you feel comfort in your memories and find acceptance and inner peace.  

Provides an extra boost of comfort and strength when taken for 3 days preceding assisted suicide of a loved one, or  euthanization of your pet.  It will ease your heart and provide strength and inner peace

 

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml $50    

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I Feel Loved
 
 
"I Feel Loved"
 
"Under the sustaining influence of love, the physical body is always at its best.  It is probably true that more people are sick from lack of love in their lives than from all other causes put together"  Eric Butterworth
 
A wonderful warm-and-fuzzy antidote for anyone who is alone, or feeling alone and unloved.  You'll feel softly enveloped in positive, loving feelings.  It is almost like being in love!
 
Use for 3 or more days whenever needed
 

30 ml  $30  

 

 

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I Am Lovable

 

"I Am Lovable"

A sweet uplifting essence to help you to feel more lovable and willing and able to accept and receive love  

By promoting gentle sweet self-love, I AM LOVABLE allows you to believe when others tell you that they love you, and helps you to accept and receive when people want to do nice things for you

 

Use for 3-5 days whenever needed

30 ml  $30  

 

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Self-Acceptance

 

 

"Self Acceptance"

Be kinder to yourself!  A lovely gentle essence to help you love and accept yourself and your body-- just as you are.  Ends being self-critical

 

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

  

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Self-Forgiveness

 

 

"Self Forgiveness"

A lovely sweet essence fusion to prompt self forgiveness and inner peace.  Releases self-recrimination, self-judgment and grudges against self.  Helps you to feel more loving toward yourself

 

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

 

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I Am Deserving"I Am Deserving"

A powerful, life-altering self-love essence fusion!  Overrides negative messages you've been receiving from others and from yourself that you are flawed, unworthy, not entitled, or undeserving.  Helps to instill self-acceptance, confidence and ease 

Tends to draw what you desire and compels you to accept and welcome benefits, love, and better treatment by others

 

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50 

 

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"I have noticed some shifts already in my ability to receive, with little synchronicities occurring, generosity, and ah-a insights. I am looking forward to the next 17 days of increased deservingness"  Jennifer B  Santa Fe NM

 

 

 

Love Yourself

 

 

"Love Yourself"

Instills uplifting happy feelings of self love that feel like a sweet, kind, feel-good self-hug

 

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50   

 

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Goddess

 

 

"Goddess"

A lovely yin essence fusion to support and strengthen feminine energies.  Deeply grounding and receptive, feels likes Gaia with undertones of 'femme fatale' sensuality.  Subtle and almost indescribable in its alluring effect

 

21 days.  Repeat whenever desired for 3-5 days 

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

 

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"I love how it makes me feel. Very seductive and free and adventurous"  Denise A  Catawba NC

 

 

 

Love Magnet

"Love Magnet"

A light, happy, flirty essence fusion that helps to focus the energy of your body and mind on feelings of love, interaction, and closeness, while accentuating feelings of attractiveness and drawing others to you.  Due to its uplifting nature LOVE MAGNET helps improve social interaction, and deepens connections that are vital for relationships of all kinds.  Attracts attention, love, closeness, and affection of all kinds  

For ideal results use Love Magnet after you have dissolved any lingering grief, defensiveness, or despair with our Heart Healing essence fusions, and have achieved a healthy self-esteem with our Empowering essence fusions  

 

Use 3-5 days.  Repeat every 4-8 weeks 

15 ml  $15  ~  30 ml @ $30  

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"Love Magnet is definitely working. Physiologically, I feel good, I feel vibrant and energetic. And I'm also manifesting things that I have been wanting for a very long time... little things that meant a lot to me.  In addition to that, I've been feeling more frisky in terms of feeling softer in my heart and overall disposition. I have even been kinder to my ex and more gracious. It feels like I've let a lot of this hard exterior shell go. Which is a good thing."  Isis T  Annapolis MD

 

 

 

My Authentic Self"My Authentic Self" 

This is the ideal essence for those who have self-image problems such as low self-esteem, attracting the wrong partners, neediness or discomfort being alone, hiding your true feelings or true self and order to keep the peace, and for those who compromise their own needs in order make others happy.  In an effort to be accepted, sociable, cooperative, and liked by others, you may be compromising your needs and losing who you really are and what you need to sustain yourself

Not being your true self results in loneliness (even when with others), unfulfilling relationships, low self esteem, and never getting your needs met.  How can you ever be loved just for yourself, or find the right partner for yourself, if no one sees the real you?

 

21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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"Throughout the days I was taking it, I fell in love with myself. I am important and I matter. I am amazed with myself now and how I respond and feel about things. What other people say, those that bother me before, does not have much weight now. The thoughts of others, those that I assume they have of me, do not matter. I feel good about me. It feels good to be detached from useless thoughts and emotions. I'm excited to move on to other flower essences and become a better me in the process. I'm grateful to have found you and your flower essences. It's a wonderful blessing."  Maria G  Oxnard CA

 

 


Forgiveness

"Forgiveness" 

"The importance of forgiving yourself cannot be stated strongly enough.  If you carry around thoughts of shame about what you've done in the past, you're weakening yourself both physically and emotionally."  Dr Wayne Dyer

 

Forgive yourself.  Forgive others.  Find inner peace in the release of resentment, grudges, anger, indignation, and judgment 

Forgiveness is the most wonderful freeing gift to yourself!  It brings peace and grace  

 

"Forgiveness Essence is amazing!"  Mychelle W  San Diego CA

  21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

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Guilt Release

"Guilt Release"

Shame is one of the 7 life-altering wounds.  It carries the lowest vibration of all the emotions. 

There are 4 faces of shame ….  

 

GUILT = I did something bad

SHAME = I AM bad/unworthy  

HUMILIATION = Judged by others

DISGUSTED = Judging someone else

 

Effortlessly releases guilt, shame, and self-judgment to allow you to be more loving and kind toward yourself.  Dissolves negative self-talk and feeling bad about yourself.  Helps you feel free and able to set healthy boundaries to not let others take advantage of you.  Allows you to see situations with greater clarity, logic, and a higher perspective so you don't automatically accept blame
 

   21 days + repeat once a month for 3-5 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50

 

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Mother Healing

"Mother Healing"

A nurturing, comforting essence fusions that gently heals all female relationships in your life and also eases your own struggles and insecurities as a mother and nurturer.  Releases, heals, and overwrites long-held emotional pain, anger, resentment, unwillingness to forgive, unrequited love, rejection, abandonment, longing for nurturing, and other negative feelings associated with unhealed mother or mothering issues, as well as ALL important female relationships in your life  

 

"With this essence I do not get burdened with thoughts and anxieties with all the balancing I am doing.  I am able to face it all calmly and with an intuitive know how.  As this remedy has made such a huge impact in my life, I am confident that others will have miraculous results, as well "  Laura A  Toronto ON

 

When you are unhealed with respect to your mother, you will feel unlovable and unable to accept or receive nurturing and love from others.  You may not know how to nurture yourself or others in healthy emotionally fulfilling ways.  Breast cancer and miscarriage commonly manifest from unhealed mother issues.  

Mother Healing allows you to transcend your past and see your challenging feminine relationships from a higher perspective.  when you change, your relationships and everything else in your life begins to shift in positive ways

 

 

Use for 21-66 days

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml $50   

 

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"I feel really great today... calm... nurtured & mostly not looking for food.  I really feel satisfied.  My heart feels sooo full & I didn't take anything else today.  Yesterday spent a beautiful day with my mom ...  it was lovely & she was soooo loving..♥️♥️  Truly a beautiful remedy ... Mother Healing"   Mary Rose Didiano  Dynamic Wellness Solutions  Woodbridge ON

 

I began taking the remedy with the idea that despite working on my relationship with my mother, who was abusive in my childhood, that I still had old feelings and responses to her to clear.  Soon after taking the remedy I noticed that she was being a lot softer with me and I felt really happy rather than nervous or anxious talking with her. When I finished the remedy it was almost as if a magic spell had been cast on both of us as there was no longer any animosity or tension in our communication and relationship. The changes here are dramatic and striking. Most importantly, what seemed impossible before in our relationship had now become possible! Thank you for making this incredible shift in my life take place"  Kristina P  Bellingham WA

 

 

 

 

 

Mother & Child Bond

"Mother & Child Bond"

The gentle frequencies of this essence can help new mothers, babies, children and orphaned pets to feel loved, wanted, cherished, and secure

Instills a loving, protective urge and promotes healthy emotional bonding between mother and child.  Ideal for adoptions.  Also helps with post partum, or when mother and infant have been separated, such as hospitalization, parental visitation order, or foster care

This gentle essence fusion also helps counteract postpartum emotions, or rejection of a child.  Assists with forming new emotional bonds such as with adoption  

For babies and small children, simply add a few drops to bathwater

  

Use for 21 days  

30 ml  $30

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Self-Love Trio
 

Self-Love Trio 

Use whenever needed for self-nurturing, inner balance, and replenishment!   

    .I Am Deserving  to help you feel more worthy and lovable  30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   to promote self-nurturing and self-care   30 ml
    .Self Acceptance  to help you lovingly accept yourself and your body   30 ml

 

$90 value  $80  (Save $10)  

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*Individual bottles of your favorite remedies may be re-ordered in any size

 

 


Self-Care Pack
 
 

Self-Care Pack 

Use whichever one of these essences is appropriate whenever you need self-nurturing, replenishment and support!    

    .Nurturer in Balance  Helps you hold your balance and replenish yourself while nurturing others   30 ml
    .Be Kind to Yourself   Promotes self-nurturing, self-kindness and self-care   30 ml
    .Support  Provides replenishment, strength and support when you are a caregiver   30 ml

 

$90 value  $80  (Save $10) 

 

 

 

*Individual bottles of your favorite remedies may be re-ordered in any size

 

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