Take our 2-minute 2-step Happiness Quiz to discover which areas of your life aren't so happy …
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Our Happiness Quiz reveals which areas of your life are out of balance and need some helpful uplifting change and support from our live flower frequencies
Step 1 HAPPINESS QUIZ Begin by rating each of the following areas of your life on a scale of 1-10 (10 is ideal/best). Be as honest as you can
1) SELF ESTEEM (how you feel about yourself)
2) RELATIONSHIPS & INTIMACY
3) FAMILY (Are your family relationships harmonious and loving?)
4) CAREER FULFILLMENT
5) FINANCES (Are you struggling?)
6) HEALTH
7) NEEDS MET (Are you able to ask for what you want or need?)
8) HAPPINESS
9) ACCEPTANCE (Do you feel you belong? Do you find it easy to be your authentic self? Do you feel comfortable when with others?)
10) NURTURING (Do you nurture yourself? Do you look after your own needs? Do you do the things needed to maintain vitality and health? Do you regularly do things that make you feel good both physically and emotionally?)
SCORING: Are you happy with your scores? (8-10 scores in all categories) Thumbs up!! Congratulations!
If not continue to STEP 2 to see the actual cause of your unhappiness and which live flower frequencies can most help you
SMART TIP: If you have many categories with a low score, you may want to order a custom photo test for best results. It can be confusing trying to figure out on your own what will best help you. Testing can save you money and time by accurately pinpointing your the key underlying issues and what you need to create the positive life makeover you need
Step 2 (optional) LIFE PERCEPTIONS TEST Take this test if you scored low in some areas of the Happiness quiz. It will help you gain deeper insight into why you aren't happy and help you pinpoint critical areas that can benefit from change or healing
Answer each of the following statements with either YES or NO. You'll see a pattern emerge
HELPFUL TIP: Below each question we've suggested appropriate transformational essence formulas to help release that issue. To narrow down what will most benefit you, look for all the statements you answered 'NO'. Scan the recommended essences for those ' statements. Notice which essence fusions show up repeatedly.
Make a list: These essences form a theme that reveals your personal story. This will help you pinpoint the best essence(s) for your needs
If you are dealing with trauma of any kind, be sure to include one of our control release formulas to take first. And add an empowering essence to take after. Healing happens in 3 stages: release defense mechanisms --> remove trauma --> invoke empowerment
Essence fusions are listed by category under Our Products
They are also listed alphabetically in our SHOPPING CART
SMART TIP: Keep a record of your initial scores. After you have taken an essence fusion for 3 weeks or longer, redo this test without looking at your original scores. Then, compare your new results with the original test scores. Have the scores improved in relevant areas? You'll be amazed at how much your feelings will have changed each time to use one of our essence fusions!
1) I feel lovable
Symptoms of not feeling worthy of love: You don't ask for what you want or need, people take advantage of you, disrespect from others, inferiority complex, estrangement from family, self-criticism, self abuse, relationship with aloof or abusive partner, acting the way you think others want or expect, feel abandoned, needy, insecure, over-achiever, , scarcity.
Physical symptoms: Anxiety in chest/throat, heart issues, respiratory issues/asthma, upper back or chest pain, auto-immune disorders
Essences to help you: I Am Lovable ~ I Feel Loved ~ I Am Deserving ~ Love Yourself ~ Guilt Release ~ Self Acceptance ~ Self Forgiveness ~ Mother Healing ~ Abandonment Heal ~ Father Issues ~ Love Magnet ~ Open Heart
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues and Childhood Issues
2) I feel supported
Symptoms of not feeling supported: depression, stress, feel burdened, resentful, feel guilty asking others to help you, not enough time for yourself, lots of burdens and responsibility, feeling that you have to do it yourself because others will let you down, can't say 'no'
Physical symptoms: stooped posture, lower back pain, exhaustion, spinal problems
Essences to help you: Support ~ Be Kind to Yourself ~ Nurturer in Balance ~ I Am Flexible ~ Control Release ~ Root Chakra
You'll find these essence fusions under Nurturing & Support
3) I feel loved
Symptoms and causes of not feeling loved: sadness, loneliness, estrangement, depression, abandonment, dysfunctional family, don't take care of yourself, can't reach out others, people take advantage of you, abusive relationship, self-criticism and self-judgment, no relationship
Physical symptoms: poor posture, heart issues, pain in upper back and chest, shoulder/arm/hand injuries, stiffness, or pain, sinus issues/runny nose, dry or runny eyes
Essences to help you: Love Yourself ~ I Feel Loved ~ I Am Deserving ~ Self Acceptance ~ Self Forgiveness ~ Love Magnet ~ Open Heart ~ Father Issues ~ Abandonment Heal ~ Mother Healing ~ Deep Wounds of Childhood ~ Heartbreak Heal
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues Relationship Issues and Childhood Issues
4) I take time for myself
Symptoms: don't feel supported, feel burdened, ignore your feelings, depression, festering anger and resentment, chronic stress, no healthy boundaries, food cravings, guilt, too serious, over-nurture others, no fun in your life, can't say 'no', don't speak up
Physical Symptoms: thyroid disorder, pain and/or tightness in throat, pain or stiffness in back of neck/head/shoulders, breast cancer
Essences to help you: Be Kind to Yourself ~ I Am Deserving ~ Nurturer in Balance ~ Beloved Inner Child ~ Women's Vitality ~ Chi Tonic ~ Throat Chakra ~ Clear & Protect
You'll find these essence fusions under Nurturing & Support Physical Wellbeing and Protection & Clearing
5) I am happy with myself
Symptoms: do things the hard way, not taking time for yourself, criticism and belittling from others and yourself, no healthy boundaries, jealousy, insecurity, people take advantage of you, attract abusive relationships, judging or criticizing others, not eating healthy, eating disorders, concerned with what other people think about you, bad luck, scarcity,
Physical Symptoms: auto-immune diseases, neck pain or stiffness, acne, weight gain or over-weight
Essences to help you: My Authentic Self ~ Self Acceptance ~ Self Forgiveness ~ Love Yourself ~ Respect Me! ~ Self Esteem ~ I Am Deserving ~ Soul Retrieval ~ Forgive My Past ~ Be Kind to Yourself ~ Goddess
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues and Nurturing & Support
6) I have made peace with my past
Symptoms of lingering emotional baggage: unhappy, anger, resentment, bitterness, dwell on the past, emotional triggers, reactive, defensive, estrangements, unable to forgive, remorse, feel stuck, scarcity, relationship problems, unable to trust, dysfunctional family, clutter in your house/closets/basement, food cravings--especially dairy and sugar
Physical Symptoms: liver, gallbladder or pancreas health issues, pain, injuries, back pain, plantar fasciitis, oedema, especially in lower legs
Essences to help you: Deep Wounds of Childhood ~ Abandonment Heal ~ Mother Healing ~ Father Issues ~ Family Karma ~ Divorce Heal ~ Heartbreak Heal ~ Forgiveness ~ Forgive My Past ~ Karma Clear ~ Guilt Release ~ Sexual Abuse Release ~ Trauma Release ~ I Am Not a Victim
You'll find these essence fusions under Heal Your Trauma and Childhood Issues
7) I have forgiven myself for mistakes I have made
Symptoms of not forgiving yourself: shame, guilt, aloofness, withdrawal, secretiveness, negative self-talk, financial difficulties, scarcity, relationship problems, self-punishment, dysfunctional family, bad luck, tolerating abuse from others
Physical Symptoms: auto-immune disorders, injuries and bruises, neck and shoulder pain and stiffness
Essences to help you: Self Forgiveness ~ Guilt Release ~ Love Yourself ~ I Am Deserving ~ Self Acceptance ~ Forgive My Past ~ Karma Clear ~ Sexual Abuse Heal
You'll find these essence fusions under Heal Your Trauma and Childhood Issues
8) I feel confident and capable
Symptoms of low self esteem: shyness, jealousy, insecurity, bullied, stage fright, victimization, no healthy boundaries, under-achiever, over-reactive, don't speak up, self-imposed limitations, self-doubt, avoid drawing attention to yourself, stage fright, procrastination, indecision, don't listen to your intuition, under-paid, dress to be 'invisible', often feel stressed or overwhelmed, anxiety, negativity, attract crisis, drama queen, can't look people in the eyes
Physical Symptoms: weight gain or overweight, stooped shoulders
Essences to help you: Self Esteem ~ Uplifting Confidence ~ Empowerment ~ Success ~ Spiritual Power ~ I Am Deserving ~ Social Empowerment ~ Stress Buster! ~ Drama Free ~ Support ~ Strength & Resolve ~ I Am Not a Victim ~ Solar Plexus Chakra ~ Shield
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues Stress & Anxiety Relief and Protection & Clearing
9) I feel prosperous and successful
Symptoms of poor prosperity consciousness: negative, critical, always more outgo than income, stress over money, often say 'no', make excuses to pass on opportunities, victim of fate, negativity, lack of gratitude, hate your job, jealous of others, criticize and condemn wealthy people, often make excuses for yourself or blame others for your circumstances, procrastinate, clutter in your home or workplace, stress or overwhelm
Essences to help you: Abundance ~ Success ~ I Am Deserving ~ Father Issues ~ Flow ~ I Feel Blessed ~ Align to Your Destiny
You'll find these essence fusions under Abundance
10) It feels safe to be my true authentic self
Symptoms that you are not being yourself: you are a people-pleaser, you are an empath, you are always on your best behaviour, your relationships break down after a few months, you shrink from criticism, you often feel insecure,jealous, or self conscious and worry what other people think, others take advantage of you, you are a perfectionist, you feel like you do not get your own needs met, don't like to be the centre of attention
Physical Symptoms: weight gain or overweight, blushing, auto-immune disorders, back pain, acne or skin problems, bladder issues
Essences to help you: Control Release ~ My Authentic Self ~ Uplifting Confidence ~ Social Empowerment ~ Spiritual Power ~ Highest Self ~ Soul Retrieval ~ Self Acceptance ~ Goddess ~ Holding My Own Space ~ Social Butterfly ~ Shield ~ Clear & Protect ~ Solar Plexus Chakra
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues and Protection & Clearing
11) I am able to set boundaries and hold my own space in relationships and friendships
Symptoms: you are an empath, you over-nurture others, you get talked into things, you do things you don't really want to do, you are a people-pleaser, people take advantage of you, you have no free time, you feel burdened, you feel anxious or uncomfortable in social situations, you dwell on injustices done to you, you are unable to speak up when you feel wronged by someone
Physical symptoms: blushing, weight issues, bladder issues, vaginal issues
Essences to help you: Respect Me! ~ Empowerment ~ I Am Deserving ~ My Authentic Self ~ Spiritual Power ~ Soul Retrieval ~ Nurturer in Balance ~ Social Empowerment ~ Root Chakra ~ Shield ~ Clear & Protect
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues and Protection & Clearing
12) I enjoy challenges and handle problems easily
Symptoms of stress: short temper, over-reaction, panic attacks, perfectionist, inflexible, feel overwhelmed, short-term memory lapses, procrastination, anxiety, adrenaline addiction (crave coffee, sugar or chocolate)
Physical Symptoms: smelly feet or armpit sweat, digestive issues, insomnia, extra weight around stomach area, liver or bladder problems
Essences to help you: Stress Buster! ~ Flow ~ Chill Out ~ Worry Free ~ Zen ~ Serenity ~ Drama Free ~ Rescue & Revive ~ Adapt to Change ~ Support ~ Control Release ~ I Am Flexible ~ Shield ~ Clear & Protect ~ Uplifting Confidence ~ Empowerment ~ Chakra Balancing Set
You'll find these essence fusions under Self Image Issues Stress & Anxiety Relief and Protection & Clearing
13) My relationships are loving and healthy
Cause: divorced parents, abandonment, dysfunctional family, alcohol or substance abuse, foster care, childhood sexual abuse
Symptoms: arguments, criticism, perfectionism, inflexibility, over-reaction, lack of communication and understanding, feel like your needs are not being met, loneliness, estrangement, abandonment, divorce, jealousy and insecurity, fear of intimacy, gas-lighting, control dynamics (narcissist), secrets, lying and withholding, feel unloved, feel manipulated, feel like you have lost yourself, food cravings (especially chocolate and sugar)
Physical Symptoms: weight gain, thyroid issues, bladder or vaginal issues
Essences to help you: Control Release ~ I Am Flexible ~ Holding My Own Space ~ Heartbreak Heal ~ Broken Heart Heal ~ Divorce Heal ~ Serenity ~ Heart Speak ~ Love Empowered ~ Love Magnet Trio ~ Forgiveness ~ Drama Free ~ Deep Wounds of Childhood ~ Mother Healing ~ Father Issues ~ Family Karma ~ Soul Retrieval ~ Clear & Protect
You'll find these essence fusions under Relationship Issues and Childhood Issues
14) I have a loving and supportive family
Symptoms of dysfunctional family dynamics: Alcohol or substance abuse. Sexual or physical abuse. Divorced parents. Family 'secrets'. 'Control issues' expressed as behaviours such as perfectionist, critical or inflexible, empath, extreme self-relience, do not ask for help, eating disorder, use covert manipulation, over-nurture others and neglect self, or you are a people pleaser. Choose emotionally unavailable partners or substance abusers. Don't feel loved or lovable. Fear of vulnerability. Unable to express affection or your feelings. Believe you have to be perfect in order to be loved. Family rifts or estrangement from your family. Dread family holidays. Fear of expressing your true feelings and thoughts. Feel like you have lost yourself. Addiction to stress/adrenaline (symptoms: focus on the negative, over-reaction, attract crisis, crave sugar, coffee, dairy or chocolate).
Physical Symptoms: Weight issues, breast or ovarian cancer. Chronic pain. Shoulder, arm, hand injuries or pain, back problems
Essences to help you: Control Release ~ I Am Flexible ~ Deep Wounds of Childhood ~ Abandonment Heal ~ Father Issues ~ Mother Healing ~ Family Karma ~ Forgiveness ~ Forgive My Past ~ Guilt Release ~ Trauma Heal ~ Sexual Abuse Release ~ I Am Not a Victim ~ Karma Clear ~ Open Heart ~ Sweet Innocence ~ Dissolving Anger ~ Beloved Inner Child ~ Divorce Heal (works for all types of relationships!) ~ Serenity (acceptance of things/people you cannot change) ~ Drama Free (stress/adrenaline addiction) ~ Shield
You'll find these essence fusions under Heal Your Trauma and Childhood Issues
15) I easily adapt to changes in my life and move forward
Symptoms of not being able to readily adapt: lack of confidence, inability to make decisions, prefer having a leader, control issues such as perfectionism or inflexibility, critical, rigid, fear of new situations, stress, worry, anxiety, insomnia, social anxiety, not spontaneous, over-think
Physical Symptoms: knee, hip, ankle, and/or joint pain
Essences to help you: Adapt to Change ~ Flow ~ Moving On ~ I Am Flexible ~ Worry Free ~ Zen ~ Serenity ~ Stress Buster! ~ Drama Free ~ Social Butterfly ~ I Am Not a Victim ~ Root Chakra
You'll find these essence fusions under Life Changes Stress & Anxiety Relief and Heal Your Trauma
16) I have overcome my grief and moved on with my life after losing someone that I love
Causes of grief: bereavement, abandonment, loneliness, betrayal, rejection isolation, catastrophic injury (amputation, paralysis, etc), loss of a pet, estrangement, divorce, empty nest
Symptoms: withdrawal, depression, loss of appetite, food cravings, insomnia or sleep too much, lack of interest, daily routine has changed, don't plan ahead
Physical Symptoms: weight gain or loss, tears, anxiety in the chest/throat, changes in eyesight (more near-sighted), heart problems, lowered immunity (easily catch viruses), oedema
Essences to help you: Heartbreak Heal ~ Broken Heart Heal ~ Comfort & Solace ~ Abandonment Heal ~ Trauma Heal ~ Divorce Heal ~ Serenity ~ Moving On ~ Faith Hope and Trust ~ Heart Chakra
You'll find these essence fusions under Relationship Issues
17) I am happy
Symptoms of happiness: gratitude, optimism, lack of stress, sense of belonging, healthy boundaries, sense of adventure, healthy friendships and relationships, open communication and honesty, strong immune system, quick recovery from illness, overall good health, pain-free
Essences to help you: I Feel Blessed ~ Flow ~ Carefree ~ Young at Heart ~ Chill Out ~ Beloved Inner Child ~ Faith Hope and Trust ~ Love Magnet ~ Chakra Balancing Set
You'll find these essence fusions under Be Happy
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