November 25, 2019 @ 5:42 AM


OK ... I admit it ... I have never been able to compromise well.  I just can't pretend that something is OK when it isn't.  I resent censoring the things I need in my life in order to try and make someone else happy.  I've learned that it really doesn't make them happy either.  And, more importantly I begin to suffer with insecurity and self-doubt when I am not being true to myself and living authentically.  

From a young age we are taught through punishment and reward to behave in a way that will elicit the acceptance, love and security we desire.  We all want to 'fit in', to belong and feel loved and accepted.  And so we follow the latest fads--dress and ......

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November 8, 2019 @ 10:57 AM


Christmas is approaching fast!

USA & Western Canada--Be sure to get your orders to us before December 13th
so your essences will arrive before the holidays!
If you live in Ontario or Quebec you can order right up until December 18th 

YES!  You can still place orders online and request photo-testing all during December!   
Happy Holidays!

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October 14, 2019 @ 8:08 AM

"It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.  I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing  …  I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself:  if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.”

Oriah Mountain Dreamer—from The Invitation

Many years ago a friend made a shocking and very radical change in her life.  She suddenly left her husband and teenage children to take off for parts unknown in a metamorphic quest for her spiritual self.

Shockwaves reverberated for months as those who often preached universal acceptance and unconditional love suddenly found themselves outraged, ......

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September 23, 2019 @ 8:37 AM


One of the most difficult things to do is to look at ourselves objectively.  Emotions, past experience, and individual perspective colour and distort how we see ourselves, how we view others, and how we perceive any given situation.

The dynamics of our intimate relationships can reveal so much about our internal belief systems.  Relationships help us discover how we really feel about ourselves.  

We fall in love with someone because unconsciously we see ourselves within this person—everything we love about this person is what we love within ourself.  When we fall out of love, it is for the same reason—we unconsciously see what we don’t love about ourself and reject that.

When you experience ......

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September 3, 2019 @ 8:23 AM

“We must insist on succulence!  Our lives are too rich and too rare to have less” Susan Sark


Many years ago I was inspired to create a “Succulent Wild Women” group.  The premise was based on the writings of artist Susan Sark.  The goal was to gather creative women together once a month to share an outrageous evening of celebrating our most creative and individual selves.  

In our daily lives of being nurturers, caretakers, friends and lovers, we keep so little for ourselves.  This evening became an opportunity to be divinely selfish for one night.  With this kind of freedom we could access our core essence, our most creative and unique selves and draw inspiration from ......

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August 19, 2019 @ 4:55 PM

Someday, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tides, and gravity, we shall harness the energies of love.  Then for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire.  Unknown

Is there really anything more wonderful than being in love and feeling loved by another?  Why do we choose a particular partner?  What are we really seeking?  

A relationship begins because two people see something within each other that fulfills something within themselves.  Whether through friendship or romance, each person contributes their personal strengths and emotional ‘gifts’ to the benefit of another, and, in return, they receive what they need.  


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August 5, 2019 @ 9:48 AM

We LOVE finding ways to make your challenges become much easier!  Of course, our living flower frequencies certainly top our list of tools to assist you!

Do you have a youngster heading off to kindergarten for the first time, a child heading to a new school, or a teen heading off to college or university?  ADAPT TO CHANGE can make the transition effortless for them!  This lovely essence fusion can help to instil a greater sense of adventure and openness the new experiences.  This is the antidote to fear, stress, and homesickness

Don't forget to order ADAPT TO CHANGE or MOVING ON for yourself, too!   After all, your life will be changing with the upcoming empty nest!  

We have other amazing remedies for .........

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July 22, 2019 @ 9:28 AM

“Destiny is the push of our instincts to the pull of our purpose.”  TD Jakes

When I was a small child I loved to draw and colour.  Rainy days were wonderful excuses to pull out paints pencil crayons and paper.  I don't know what defines talent, but my drawings certainly drew a lot of accolades and I understood that it was a good thing.  My mother often proclaimed that when God gives you a talent, it is your obligation to use it.  I believed her  

And so, by the age of 15 I was creating pastel portraits for tourists and selling my paintings.  By the age of 24 I owned my own design business and earned a very good living doing what started out as a hobby and passion.  ...

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July 4, 2019 @ 1:17 PM

This amazing new living flower essence was captured from a Saston Dogwood bush.  It took 4 tries before we are able to complete the capture of this essence.  That has never happened before!  

But, here at Enlightened Feelings, there are no accidents in our world!  Each time we sat with the flowers to communicate with them, the flowers took us ever deeper into their wisdom, providing more information and expanding what we called from them    

Both Dogwood and Tulip Tree are Carolinian forest natives, and Enlightened Feelings owns a small acreage of these lovely carolinian trees.  Saston Dogwood is a popular hybrid, but this bush is quite old  

Notice the perfect balance and symmetry of each of the .........

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June 19, 2019 @ 4:50 PM

The first new flower essence to join our collection in 2019 is Tulip Tree!

I have waited for so many years to have my own tulip tree in bloom!  And now I get to keep its beautiful essence forever! 

This amazing living flower essence is for self love.  It instils inner strength, resiliency, positivity, friendliness, and self assurance without losing awareness of those around you.  Tulip Tree is a self-celebration!   It connects confidence and self-love with compassion, so you can hold you own space with an awareness and acceptance that allows others to be themselves

Watch for Tulip Tree to be added to our single essences as soon as we complete our field trials! 

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Enlightened Feelings

Port Rowan ON  N0E 1M0  (519) 586-2983

located in beautiful Long Point Beach, Norfolk County Ontario