How to Choose Your Own Living Flower Essences
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With more than 100 flower frequency formulas available on our website, selecting the right flower essence remedies for your needs can seem daunting at first. But, getting the right remedies is very important to ensure the best results. So, this page offers 7 different ways to make it easy to choose the ideal essence remedies for your needs!
1) Take a quick Happiness Quiz or the Quick Mood Test. These quick self-tests are fun and easy ways to see which areas of your life you need to work on. Both tests suggest remedies for your results
2) Don't know where to begin? Opt for a personal testing by photo and let us pinpoint the ideal essences for you. We offer 3 different price points to suit your budget and needs. One of the options includes personal coaching services to help you re-frame your experiences and develop more positive tools for relating
3) Do-it-yourself testing using our amazing Testing Cards. It's a great tool to awaken self-discovery! The cards can be used in multiple ways. You can even use them to test other people. Results are highly accurate when used properly
Testing Cards feature 76 of our living flower essence fusions in full colour on 3.5" X 5" durable cards. Each card holds the frequencies of an essence fusion and has a full description on the back to help you pinpoint the right remedy for your needs. There are multiple ways of using the cards on yourself, to test others, and for divination. Instructions are included
Just $29.98! 
4) Choose by addressing your specific emotional issue. We list various emotional issues alphabetically and provide suggestions for appropriate essence remedies for you
5) Choose by your specific health issue. We list a wide range of health issues and suggest suitable essences to address the emotional origin of your symptoms
6) Visit our essence fusions menu with more than a dozen different categories of essence fusions to assist you
Choose an appropriate topic, such as Help for Trauma, or Self-Image Issues. All the relevant essence fusions are listed in that category. Each of our formulas approaches the issue from a different perspective

How can you pinpoint which essence fusion will give you the best result? Read the descriptions, of course!
7) You'll also see beautiful images that represent the unique energies of each of our flower frequency formulas. Look at those images. You can feel their energy, can't you? Your body and mind react instinctively, softening or tensing
Which image catches your attention? What feelings does it invoke? Do you love it? Does it make you feel happier or more loving? Does it make you feel uncomfortable, resistant, or ill?
If you love an image most likely it is one that most resonates with your own personal vibration. It represents your best and most ideal state of being. That essence fusion can bring you into very best self. Most likely the essence you have chosen is one designed to help you feel happier or more in balance
If you feel turned off by an image, or want to reject it, most likely you are fighting integration of those energies or they bring up a trauma. It is likely an essence fusion that helps to overwrite the past, or deals with negative feelings or self-image--a stubborn trauma or self rejection you don't want to face or let go. This means you might actually need that essence fusion to create a positive shift
*A feeling of resistance or denial might mean that in order to fully and more effortlessly release these issues without struggle you will need to take a control release formula first, such as CONTROL RELEASE or I AM FLEXIBLE to help you relax and release those painful feelings
How to create your own protocols
Sometimes the 'fix' seems simple... You got your heart broken and you want the pain to go away. You want a relationship--So you think a love potion will solve that
But, positive, meaningful life shifts don't happen with just one bottle. They happen in layers--taking away the blockage first. Then instilling positive thoughts and feelings
For most people the root of the problem is in the past. You must purge the past, first before you can change the present! For example, you might have just had a relationship breakup and simply want to get over the heartbreak. But, likely, your choice of partner, your behavior in the relationship, and the end result of that relationship traces back to your childhood. You may even have a lifetime of ugly causal factors to peel back and dissolve
That's why meaningful, lasting change is often a 2 or 3-step process
Whatever old trauma, experience, belief, or learned habit is holding you back needs to be expunged before you can experience happiness, love, and success. That's why you start by removing the past. It's what is affecting your present!
Think of it as removing old 'software' that's causing glitches in your operating program. Once you have dissolved the past, you then can install new 'software'--a positive self image to sustain you in the present with happy feelings, positive experiences, and inner balance
Case 1) For example, to attract a loving relationship, you might begin with FATHER ISSUES for 3 weeks to release any unresolved childhood issues about feeling unloved or unlovable. Then you take HEARTBREAK HEAL for 21 days to release the emotional pain and defensiveness resulting from your recent broken relationships. It will restore an open heart. Now that you have released what you no longer want, you then need to fill that empty space with something positive and empowering so that you can be yourself and 'hold your own space' in a relationship
So, you might choose MY AUTHENTIC SELF to stop people-pleasing and trying to be perfect, and instead become comfortable expressing your true self. This ensures you attract a more ideal partner who will love you for who you really are
To attract a partner, you would then complete the protocol with 3-5 days of LOVE MAGNET. And then watch the magic happen!
Case 2) In the case of a painful dysfunctional childhood, you might need to begin your protocol with CONTROL RELEASE. Control issues develop very early in life to help you survive in a less-than-loving home. They instill self-limiting life-rules that help you feel secure (ie: "I can only rely on myself. Others will let me down." or "I have to be perfect to be love-able.")
Follow with DEEP WOUNDS OF CHILDHOOD or a another essence for childhood trauma. To support this emotional release and instil a feeling of nurturing you could also take BE KIND TO YOURSELF at least 1/2 hour after your primary essence. This duo will instill a sense of loving nurturing which you never received as a child
Always think in terms of the whole picture. What do you want to create or experience, and what prevents you now from experiencing that. We always include detailed personal instructions for you! And we also offer convenient sets that cover all 3 steps AND save you money!

Which size bottle to choose?
For most people a 30 ml 21-day bottle of essence fusion will be sufficient to complete the desired shift. The change actually happens quite swiftly--generally in about 3-5 days. But, teaching your brain to accept this new positive way of feeling as a new habit pattern takes about 3 weeks, on average
About 31% of people will have a stubborn resistance to change and may therefore require 60 ml 40 days to affect a permanent shift or change in their way of thinking and feeling. 5% of people will need at least 66 days. Often the time can be shortened by using one of our control release formulas
Essence fusions designed for the present, rather than the past (such as self esteem issues) should be repeated for 3-5 days once a month. This ensures that you remain in a positive state, unaffected by negative experiences in your daily life. We offer these essences in convenient 60 ml size
15 ml bottles are available for as-needed or 3-5 day essence remedies
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