Emotions and Your Mind

Did you know happiness, joy and peace is your natural state?  Yes, it is.  Anything else you have learned from observing others, from your experiences, from your parents, from what you have been taught ... everything ....

Happiness is not something you have to strive for or achieve.  It's already waiting inside you.  Happiness is a state of being that happens when your needs are being met and you are in balance

You have inadvertently learned to feel the way you are feeling right now, learned to settle for less than you really want, to make choices that fall short of happiness, and to accept not having your needs met.  In fact, you may have mistakenly come to believe that's just how life is.  In reality, it is what you have learned that is now holding you back

By the age of 5 you have already decided what you must do to survive.  From this decision, this 'belief' about how the world is, most of your fears, inhibitions and self-limitations grow.  Enlightened Feelings living essences elevate your vibration to allow you to discover and break through your limiting beliefs and awaken to greater possibilities and potential    

North American culture has taught you to judge and control your feelings and place more importance on using your rational mind.  As a result, you are probably not aware of how you truly feel.  And that's not good, because your emotions have a very important purpose!  Learn why you have emotions ...

Negative feelings such as depression, anxiety, frustration, anger, worry, stress, lethargy, guilt, fear, abandonment, judgment, grief, sadness, victimization, and hopelessness are simply a sign that your needs are not being met.  In this state you are out of balance, dis-empowered.  Your life starts to spiral downward ... or it simply stalls and you feel stuck


The Secret Life of Emotions ...  Your rational mind makes judgments about your emotional experiences based on perception of pain or pleasure.  That's how you decide what is good or bad   

Because judgments are derived from your personal experiences, which act as evidence, you believe them to true.  These personal 'truths' create 'rules' that govern your behavior, choices and decisions.  'Don't do this.  It isn't safe.'    

Negative beliefs are powerful because they stem from your motivation for survival--your fundamental desire to avoid pain and stay safe


There are 7 emotional wounds that will leave deep and lasting scars on your consciousness and keep you locked in destructive behavior patterns or even harm your health  ...

abandonment ~ betrayal ~ guilt ~ humiliation/shame ~ injustice ~ rejection ~ fear 

How many of these emotional wounds have you experienced? 

Painful negative feelings have a huge impact on your life.  They can over-ride your rational thoughts.  When you experience any of these 7 traumatic emotional wounds your mind develops behavior patterns to avoid experiencing similar devastating pain.  It doesn't take long before your life is filled with personal limitations and imbalance ... can't trust ... can't forgive ... don't risk ... must become perfect to be loved ...


Dysfunctional family lifestyle situations also shape your your outlook on life and leave painful scars.  Childhood lifestyle experiences often become habitual, even though they are uncomfortable or painful

For example, the adult child of an alcoholic will unconsciously choose an alcoholic or addictive partner.  A child who lives constantly with fear and insecurity will feel uneasy in the absence of stress as an adult, and will feel bored, restless, or at a loss unless chaos and drama are present


abuse ~ addiction ~ poverty ~ criticism ~ violence ~ deprivation ~  illness ~ abandonment


"The chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken"  Warren Buffet


If you have decided what you are currently doing is right, you can never change your outer world.  Your circumstances and experiences will keep repeating over and over again.  You must ask yourself  "What is it going to take for my life to change?"

Here are a few examples of common self-limiting patterns along with the emotional wounds that first created these patterns ...

  • no risk because you might not succeed (humilation, criticism) 
  • need for perfection or to be perfect (rejection or criticism)
  • low self-esteem (rejection, humiliation, abandonment, criticism, betrayal) 
  • money problems (rejection--if I am rich or successful, people won't like me, fear--I won't be able to handle the responsibility, guilt--I don't deserve it) 
  • relationship problems (abandonment, rejection, injustice, betrayal, humiliation)

Learm more about what your feelings are telling you ...
Learn more about the impact on your life of neglecting to heal and balance your emotions


Did you know ... every emotion and thought creates such specific biological responses, that physical symptoms can actually pinpoint what's really going on in your unconscious mind!    That means negative emotions really DO cause disease and illness!  Learn how emotions affect your body 

And yet, your natural state is happiness and JOY!  How did you get so far from who you really are?  How do you find your way back to that natural state of JOY and serenity?



We offer simple effective ways to free you from your past quickly, gently, effortlessly.  From your first essence remedy you will begin to discover effortless change that begins at the very core of your energetic being and moves through your whole body, mind, auric field, and outward into your life.  Major lifelong issues suddenly begin to resolve, and limitations dissolve

Your life as it could be ...

  • Respond to life in more positive ways
  • Feel more serenity and ease in life
  • Gain healthy self-esteem and confidence
  • Attract more good things into your life
  • Have healthy, satisfying relationships
  • Align with your true destiny
  • Neutralize the 'buttons' that people push


Let go of the past.  Gain the freedom of walking unencumbered through the world.  A happier, more fulfilling life begins here, right now, with a choice.  Simply choose happiness.  Then take one step to let it in  ... 


Order your custom test today!  Your new life is waiting ...       


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