September 12, 2018 @ 9:00 AM

The art of happy living comes from success at becoming your true self and then loving your true self just as you are
"Love is the miracle cure.  Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives"  Louise Hay
We often see our most intense emotions as an aspect of our darker human side.  We mistakenly believe intense emotions such as anger, sadness, fear, and longing are negative and unproductive and will push others away from us.  Sometimes it does
But, that is because how people choose to 'hear' what you say and interpret what you do, is always ALWAYS filtered through their own experiences, perceptions and beliefs
So, you will never be able to please everyone all the time.   To even try to do so is an indication that you are only acting to please others to gain approval, acceptance, and to fit in
There is a BIG difference between FITTING IN and BELONGING.  Wanting to fit in and be accepted places your power and fate in the hands of others and keeps you always off balance.  Acting to make someone love or accept you will always leave you feeling insecure, off balance, needy, jealous and envious.  You will never feel truly loved or secure, and may even secretly feel that you don't have a right to be here
But, belonging is a state of being that starts within you.  It holds your power and inner balance
Belonging comes from an acceptance and deep understanding that you are of value.  You have a purpose and a destiny.  Belonging comes from feeling connected to something larger than yourself.  It is not only a state of loving yourself, it is a state of feeling loved and embraced by something larger than you
When you achieve your own sense of belonging and self-love, you will find that love from others is a natural bi-product.  You will feel secure and in balance, and you will truly understand and appreciate your value to others
To assist you, we have developed some amazing empowering essences.   "MY AUTHENTIC SELF" is especially helpful at helping you be honest with yourself and others.  It allows you to be comfortable in your own skin, and act from a place of authenticity.  MY AUTHENTIC SELF enables you to set boundaries and be more aware of your own needs.  SELF ACCEPTANCE is another wonderful essence fusion that helps you to be completely comfortable within yourself and accepting of your flaws    
"HOLDING MY OWN SPACE" can also help you hold your balance, set boundaries and meet your own needs when in a relationship
"SOUL RETRIEVAL" is helpful when you have disowned parts of yourself.  Sometimes this occurs during trauma or shock, such as an accident, sexual abuse, head trauma, or near-death experience. But, more often it occurs from perceived criticism or judgments by others, which causes self-judgment or guilt about your own negative attributes
Perhaps you've been taught that it isn't 'nice' to express anger, or disagree with others. Perhaps you are a perfectionist and judge your own mistakes harshly.  Or, maybe you were excessively criticized as a child, and that led you to believe you aren't good enough as you are, or that you have to 'earn' love from others.  Perhaps you are simply trying to become a more enlightened or spiritual person, and you mistakenly believe that to become enlightened you have to be perfect.  You think you can't be flawed or possess negative qualities if you want to reach this lofty goal 
What follows is a kind of separation, dis-owning, or disconnect from self.  The negative aspects of personality can actually move to the outside of your being.  You, or energy healers or intuitives may mistakenly see or feel this as an 'entity' or dark shadows, and not recognize that is it really your disowned shadow self
We ALL possess both light and dark, yin and yang.  It is this duality that creates balance and completion with us.  When the sun shines on the earth, does not one side remain cloaked in darkness?  And does this limiting darkness soon fade into light, while the light becomes dark?  Balance between light and dark is God's perfection.  But, that is quite often different than our own limited perception of perfection 
Self-acceptance and re-integration is needed if you want to be able to shift into your true destiny.  SOUL RETRIEVAL can help
"Within everyone there is light and shadow, good and evil, love and hate.  In order to be truthful, you must embrace your total being.  A person who exhibits both positive and negative qualities, strengths, and weaknesses is not flawed, but complete"   Deepak Chopra

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